What should I do if my boyfriend doesn't want to get married?

Many people think that marriage is to give an explanation to both families. In fact, it is not so. Marriage is more about turning one person into two people. Two people holding hands for a lifetime will be easier than one person. At the same time, it can also make the relationship between the two people continue to heat up, turning love into marriage and family affection. If one of the man and the woman loses faith in marriage, or other phenomena occur, we need to see what the reason is?

My boyfriend doesn't want to get married, what should I do?

Not getting married doesn't mean you don't love: Maybe this view will be criticized by many people, but it is true that nothing is absolute, and the vow of marriage does not mean that he is absolutely loyal to you. How many people have flash marriages and divorces? Of course, not getting married does not mean that he does not want to be with you for the rest of his life. This is past the age where not getting married means being a hooligan and relying on a marriage certificate to regulate your behavior.

First of all, you must understand why he doesn't want to get married: there is a fundamental difference between not getting married because of insecurity and not wanting to marry you. If he doesn't want to marry you, it means he has someone else in mind, so we shouldn't waste time on a meaningless person. If it's just because of fear before marriage and lack of security, then you can still try to warm him up with your heart and let him know that your love for him is irreplaceable.

Secondly, you must understand whether he has someone in his heart and whether you are a product of loneliness: In real life, this situation is also very common. This is how the evil ex-girlfriend comes. The ex-girlfriend is the eternal pain in his heart, and you are just a pastime to kill loneliness. This phenomenon can be seen everywhere in the emotional forum. I can only say that you were blind at the time! Please open your eyes when choosing someone next time!

Avoid the "cornered dog jumping over the wall" style of forcing marriage: Forcing marriage means that he doesn't want to marry you but you force him, he has no confidence in marriage but you rush into it, and from then on all the consequences will be borne by you, he cheated on you, he fell in love with your best friend, he did countless things behind your back, and you who forced him to marry you can only swallow your anger because you are no longer young and can't afford to play anymore.

Let everything go with the flow: No one walks on a deliberately planned life path. No matter how well the plan is made, there will always be stops and starts. For men who don't want to get married, they can only let everything go with the flow. If you can't wait, leave. If you are willing to wait, believe that one day the clouds will finally clear and the moon will shine, then please let everything go with the flow and get along with each other. Many married sisters have gone through this. You are not the only one in the world who suffers from the entanglement of marriage, but you must not be the most negative energy and the most complaining woman!

Notes

Don’t use youth or anything else as a bargaining chip. No one is anyone else’s bargaining chip, and no one can live without anyone else!

In a relationship, never use responsibility to force the other person. This is not love. The more you force someone, the worse things will get.