What to do if you don't know how to fall in love? Some love skills that boys must know

It is said that people in love are fools, but if a boy shows no clue in love and repeatedly touches the minefield or taboo of girls, then this relationship may be difficult to maintain. In fact, like other things, love also requires skills.

1: The most important thing in love is to let the other person know the truest self and understand what kind of person you are. The two people should constantly get along with each other and work together to keep the temperature of love at a saturated state. In love, you must let the other person know the truest self and like the real self.

1: In the process of love, boys should keep a rational mind. Girls like to act coquettishly and make requests to boys. Boys should be careful not to agree to everything girls say coquettishly, which will lead to girls being reckless and even causing many conflicts. So boys should also learn to say no. By convincing their girlfriends with reason and their own emotions, it is beneficial for the two to get along and coordinate with each other in the emotional road. This is beneficial to love and will help love last longer.

1: Whether it is a big mistake or a small mistake, if you do something wrong, you should be responsible for your behavior. Especially in love, many boys make mistakes but are unwilling to admit their mistakes, but choose to hide their mistakes. This is an unwise idea, which will only lead to conflicts with your girlfriend, which is harmful rather than beneficial. So you must learn to admit your mistakes. When you know that you have done something wrong, you should put aside your face and apologize, because this is not the time to care about face. You should be serious and openly responsible for your mistakes. Apologizing is not a matter of losing face, but it reflects your attitude of correcting your mistakes. Instead of stubbornly insisting that you are not wrong, this will only lead to conflicts.

1: Boys love to save face, and girls love to save face too, so as a boy, you must not criticize her in front of outsiders or friends. Even if you don’t like your girlfriend’s behavior, you should not say it in front of everyone. If you say it, then you will be in big trouble. This will only embarrass your girlfriend, and she will also start to doubt whether you really like her? No matter how much you don’t like some of her behaviors, you should show your love for her in front of outsiders or friends, so that she will feel safe. Even if you want to criticize your girlfriend, you should find a suitable time and place to bring it up separately, which can reduce unnecessary conflicts. At this time, girls will be more receptive to questions or mistakes raised by boys.

1: Love is tolerance, not indulgence. Nothing is taken for granted. When a girl does something wrong, the boy should learn to think from her perspective, understand her and tolerate her. There are more or less bumps on the road of love, so both parties must learn to understand and tolerate each other in order to maintain love for a longer time.

1: There are many reasons for couples to break up, but many breakups are caused by misunderstandings. Most of the reasons for breakups are small things that can be solved by good communication between the two parties. Lack of communication leads to many problems or even breakups. Communication is not only important in love but also in daily life. As long as there is communication, big things can be turned into small things. Both parties in love have become the closest people to each other, so they should talk about their inner thoughts and ideas more often, so that the other party can understand your inner thoughts. Communication plays the role of a bridge in the love between two people.

For the passive type, they don’t know how to love or express their emotions, which leads to many detours on the road of love. If they want to maintain a beautiful love for a longer time, they must learn the love skills of boys.