Boys who have no experience in love should not step on these minefields!

Boys who have no experience in love will make some mistakes more or less. Other people's love experience may not be of much help to you when facing the girl of your choice. How can boys who have no experience in love pursue their own happiness? As long as you avoid these minefields, you will definitely be able to get her!

1. Avoid moral kidnapping

Many times we have the thought, "I love you so much, I have done so many things for you, why can't you like me?" But this thought is wrong, we are just moved. We can't use morality to blackmail others just because we don't get the same return for our efforts. This kind of suffering is of little use except to torture ourselves, and will make ourselves more and more trapped.

2. Don’t use too much force

Some people always want their partner to devote themselves to them wholeheartedly when they are in love, and always put too much pressure on their partner, making them feel uncomfortable around them. This phenomenon of overdoing it is a manifestation of lack of love. When you are in love, remember not to overdo it.

3. Don’t be self-centered

Many people like to live in their own world, thinking that everyone should revolve around them, and they are particularly angry and like to criticize society. They don't know how to dress up, nor do they know how to chat with girls. They always think that they have a unique vision and don't need to care about appearance. In fact, girls stay away from such ideas. They should keep themselves clean and tidy, and try their best to learn how to match clothes and styles.

4. Learn to chat with girls

Chatting is the basis of empathy. Without chatting, there is no topic and no common language. Some boys don't know how to chat. They must argue about right and wrong in everything and never give in. Chatting is originally a matter of love, but being too serious will make girls feel that you are very ignorant. You may win the argument, but lose the relationship.

5. Don’t care about cheap things

Many people think they care about others, but it is really just telling them to drink more hot water when they are sick. This kind of tenderness without actual action is cheap care. Others can live well without your cheap care.

6. Date for the sake of date

Some people design a whole set of detailed procedures before a date, such as where to have lunch, where to go out, where to have afternoon tea, where to have dinner, where to watch a movie. But they don't take the girl's feelings into consideration. However, a date is just a vehicle, and what needs to be conveyed in this vehicle is your own lifestyle, not just a date for the sake of a date.