How to maintain a marriage? Three secrets men need to master

In marriage life, if you want your marriage to be in a happy state, it requires both men and women to maintain it. So, how should men maintain their marriage?

1. Be strong outside and gentle at home.

No woman in the world likes a man who is a "good-for-nothing outside, but a hero in the kitchen". A man who is too bad outside will not only be looked down upon, but also make his wife lose face in front of her friends. But a man's strength is not fake, nor is it boasted, but a comprehensive reflection of his own ability, quality, courage to do things, and personal charm. Although women all hope that their men are successful in their careers and widely respected, they also hate it when they show off in front of their wives and children.

Nowadays, women not only have to bear children for men and take on most of the housework, but also have to go out to earn money to support the family like men. Men should understand the hard work of women and have responsibilities both at home and outside. Outside, they should be proactive, work hard, have a successful career, and be a husband that their wives can be proud of. At home, they should promote democracy, love their wives and children, be gentle and considerate, and let their wives feel the warmth of their husbands. Such men can not only hold their wives' hearts, but also improve their own sense of happiness.

2. Don’t argue with your wife about who is right or wrong.

Most women are very emotional and often look at problems based on intuition, just like a woman without a sense of direction will mistake the direction, and even if she is wrong, she will continue to go all the way. Arguing between husband and wife will not only lead to no results, but sometimes it will cause friction and affect the relationship between husband and wife. A smart man never argues with his wife about right or wrong. If his wife says the earth is square, he will say it is not round. If his wife complains that it is all your fault, he will say it is all my fault. He understands that his wife is not arguing about the right or wrong of the thing itself, but wants to attract her husband's attention. It has nothing to do with right or wrong.

3. Correcting your wife’s shortcomings requires strategy.

Women are more vain than men. Smart men know that they should satisfy their wives' vanity in moderation while not encouraging their vanity. It is important to know the right degree of praise. In daily life, whenever a wife makes achievements in her career or does a good job in housework, the husband must not forget to praise and encourage her in time, so that after her efforts and hard work, she can enjoy the joy and happiness of success. This is very helpful for women to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude towards life and improve their sense of happiness. Otherwise, women will complain, "I have given my heart to this family, but no one can understand."

There is no perfect person in the world, and women often make mistakes. Whenever a wife does something wrong or says something wrong outside, a smart husband will never criticize or correct her in front of outsiders or in front of the children. He will first give his wife enough face, and then express his own opinions through communication, tactfully pointing out where she is wrong and what she should do, etc. Women know that their husbands are taking care of their face, and they are not only happy to accept criticism, but also can effectively avoid accidental discharges. When a wife recognizes her own shortcomings, a smart husband will no longer hold on to them. Such a husband is a real man in the eyes of his wife.