How much do men care about a woman's first time?

There are so many firsts in life, the first time you receive a love letter, the first time you go on a date with a boy, the first time you hold a man's hand, the first time you lean on a man's shoulder, the first time you kiss, the first time you caress a man, the first time you become a bride, the first time you lie in the arms of a man, the first time you stay together with your beloved...

Many things, from the first time to the later familiarity, gradually become a habit, and then from the first passion to the numbness after habit, many first times gradually accumulate into people's colorful life. Most women like nostalgia, often immersed in the past memories, reminiscing about the countless first times. If you ask a woman which first time is the most important, it must be the first time she caresses a man, the first time the hymen breaks. This first time allows women to become women from girls and experience the joy of sex.

Women cherish their first time, but men care about women's first time. Many men have a virgin complex. When they know their girlfriend is not a virgin, they always think that the other party is not clean. Men always think that if they get a woman's first time, they should cherish her and treat her well for the rest of their lives. For non-virgins, even if they loved each other before, their love will be greatly reduced.

So, how much do men really care about a woman's first time?

1. Men’s Virginity Complex

Even though the degree of sexual openness is much greater than before, the more so, the more deeply men have a "virgin complex". Men always allow themselves to make mistakes, but they have many requirements for women. Not only men, but the whole society is like this. It seems that it is natural for men to cheat, but it is unforgivable for women to cheat. It is precisely because virgins are almost extinct that men pursue virgins more and care more about women's first time.

Many men will become emotional when they find out their wives are not virgins after marriage, and this emotion will become an excuse for them to cheat in the future.

Unlike women, women want men to be emotionally rich so that they know how to take care of themselves, while men want their women to be a blank slate. In their view, if a woman has a rich love history, she must have made physical sacrifices. Male chauvinism forces them to want women who are always stupid, so that they can have a desire to conquer and a sense of accomplishment.

2. A woman’s precious first time

The first time a woman is shy and reluctant, which makes men reluctant to be rude and makes them take good care of her. This also arouses men's desire to protect her. After this first time, the relationship between men and women is further developed and becomes more intimate. This first time opens the door to women's sexuality and guides them to pursue the pleasure of orgasm. Regardless of whether this first time is pleasant or not, it is the most unforgettable experience for men and women. It is an honor to be a partner in the first night.

A woman's first time is only once in her life, so it is extremely precious. How can a man not cherish it? Therefore, men care about a woman's first time, and love virgins even more. They always care whether their girlfriends or future wives are virgins. Virgins have a very important and extraordinary meaning to men.

If you ask what kind of women are most attractive to men, it must be women's subtlety, gentleness like water, and charmingness. Maybe you will say that many women can give these, but the most natural and simple ones are given by Virgos, which is what makes Virgos most attractive to men.

3. Men like women with low emotional intelligence

A virgin does not necessarily have never been in love, because even if she is in love, she will not necessarily devote herself to the relationship. However, most men still think that virgins have lower emotional intelligence, and men just like women with low emotional intelligence.

A non-virgin must be a woman with a rich love history and high emotional intelligence. As for men, they like women with low emotional intelligence. They think silly girls are cute and will listen to them. Girls with too high emotional intelligence will put pressure on them. They like to "hunt for love", but they don't like to be "hunted for love". A man can be a sex expert, but he is unwilling to fight with an expert in bed. This is not only due to his virgin complex, but also because of his desire to conquer and the face and dignity of the masters.

Men love face and vanity. They will show off to their friends that their girlfriend is a virgin and wait for their friends' cheers and envious eyes. So, from another perspective, men love virgins not because they really care whether a woman is a virgin, but because they care more about their own face and vanity.

4. Hymen ≠ first time

Many men think that the hymen equals the first time, which leads many women to go to the hospital for hymen repair surgery, hoping to keep the man. But in fact, the hymen does not equal the first time.

In today's world where everything can be faked, men no longer believe in the hymen. Moreover, men do not simply love the hymen, they love a woman's first time, they love virginity.

Hidden under the hymen are countless first times of women, and what we love is the thousands of charming things underneath those countless times. Women who have had too much sexual experience think that men will not be able to tell the difference under the cover of the hymen. However, men have sharp eyes and can tell which ones are natural expressions and which ones are artificial coquettishness. If a woman always has marginal sexual behavior with other men and has done everything except sexual intercourse, then what is the meaning of this hymen to men?

Therefore, hymen ≠ first time, don't do any surgery to please men, men are not stupid! And women don't need to hurt themselves simply to please men, it's really not worth it. A man who abandons you because you are not a virgin is really not worth cherishing!