I can't get hard in front of my wife

As they age, many men begin to experience a decrease in sexual desire. Especially for their wives, if there is no novelty, many men will not be able to get hard in front of their wives. In fact, this situation is very common, which has a lot to do with the male body, but also because of the lack of novelty or other life pressure factors.

Causes of Low Libido

1. Bad habits: Low male libido is closely related to many bad habits. Some men are addicted to alcohol, which leads to alcohol poisoning. Long-term smoking leads to nicotine poisoning. Some men even take drugs. These situations are very likely to lead to low male libido and fertility problems.

2. Drug factors: All medicines are toxic. Long-term use of certain medicines by men, or taking some medicines incorrectly, are likely to cause men to have low sexual desire. Therefore, men must read the instructions carefully when taking some medicines and follow the doctor's instructions.

3. Disease factors: If the male reproductive organs are diseased, many adverse reactions will occur during sexual life, which will suppress the male's sexual desire. Common diseases such as prostatitis and urethritis may affect the male's sexual desire and cause low sexual desire in men.

4. Emotional factors: Sexual life between men and women is originally carried out in a happy mood. If men have some psychological barriers for a long time, the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, or the physical and mental labor is too heavy, it will lead to low sexual desire in men.

Diet

Traditional Chinese medicine believes that proper or improper diet has an important impact on the sexual function of the human body. As the ancients said: "If you are addicted to alcohol and rich food, it will produce dampness and heat, which will flow into the lower part of the body and disturb the sperm chamber, resulting in spermatorrhea. If you are addicted to spicy, fatty and sweet food, it will damage the spleen and stomach, cause abnormal transportation and transformation, and dampness and heat will flow into the lower part of the body, resulting in impotence." The spermatorrhea and impotence here are both sexual dysfunctions caused by improper diet. Therefore, in order to protect the normal sexual function, you must pay attention to the dos and don'ts of diet.

Diet conditioning:

1. Eat more high-quality protein: Some animal foods contain sex hormones that can promote sexual desire and sperm formation.

2. Appropriate fat intake: If men consume less fat, it will limit sperm production, reduce sexual desire and even cause infertility.

3. Supplement vitamins and trace elements: Vitamin C plays a positive role in the recovery of sexual function. Vitamin A and E play a decisive role in promoting testicular development, increasing sperm production and improving sperm motility.

Drugs

There are two aspects of the impact of drugs on sexual function: on the one hand, some drugs can reduce sexual function, and long-term and excessive use can lead to impotence and reduced ejaculation. The changes in sexual function caused by drugs can be restored after timely discontinuation of the drugs. On the other hand, some drugs can improve sexual function, which is a side effect of the drugs themselves, so normal people should not abuse them.

Drugs that cause sexual dysfunction

(1) General medicines: cocaine (cough suppressant), cimetidine (stomach ulcer treatment medicine), morphine (pain reliever).

(2) Sedatives: tranquilizers, chlordiazepoxide, diazepam, barbiturates, methaqualone, bromides, etc.

(3) Antihypertensive drugs: reserpine, guanethidine, propranolol, hydralazine, clotrimazole, prazosin, metoprolol, α-methyldopa, hexahydrobenzene bromide, mecamylamine, etc. Others include cardiotonic drugs, digitalis, and rutin alkaloids.

(4) Diuretics: spironolactone, furosemide, ethacrynic acid, and chlorothiazide diuretics.

(5) Psychiatric drugs: Chlorpromazine, Imipramine, Methiothreitol, Amitriptyline, Lithium carbonate, Haloperidol, Phenolquinazine, Monoamine oxidase inhibitors.

(6) Hormones: The use of female hormones by men may lead to impotence and ejaculation disorders.

(7) Others: Anemarrhena asphodeloides and Phellodendron chinense can reduce sexual excitement.