Are sex and marriage in conflict? They are two completely different things!

Many men believe that sex is necessary for marriage, and that sex is necessary for marriage. They complement each other, so marriage equals sex. But in today's open era, are marriage and sex really equivalent? Is there a conflict between marriage and sex? Today, the editor will analyze it in detail for everyone.

Marriage and sex are two different things

If you want to control yourself with precepts like some religious people, as long as you can ensure normal physiology (good kidneys) and be happy without sex, you can do without sex, but the essence of marriage is painful!

If sex life after marriage is not going well, you can only ask others for help to solve it - but this goes against social ethics and the teachings of some moral masters, although sex life is a basic physiological need (see: Maslow: hierarchy of needs).

So, to be honest, marriage in the current stage (in China) is too bitter and too irrational.

Why is marriage insecure?

Seventy to eighty percent of Chinese marriages are based on a sense of security. The highest level of marital security is when the two parties become family members, because family members will never leave you, and you feel affectionate when you think of them, but in reality, you seldom think of them.

When it comes to security, Chinese people have a single materialistic definition, such as a house and a car. You can't get married without a house, so it is the mother-in-law who drives up the house prices in China. The starting point of the multiple-choice question of choosing between love and material things is wrong. Why can't we have love first and then material conditions? Chinese people always advise those who have no love in their marriages not to be greedy and that it is impossible to have everything. They will definitely not place love in a particularly important position, but - only love can really create a sense of security.