What is the relationship between marriage and sex? Is sex a prerequisite for marriage?

In the eyes of many people, the quality of sex life determines the happiness of marriage and is also the culprit for the destruction of marriage. In fact, is this what real marriage and sex are like? Many experts do not agree with this view. In their view, there is another level of relationship between marriage and sex.

Sex is an important reason for marriage

"Love is based on physiological needs and is an instinctive release. I agree with the view of a foreign teacher when I was in college. I asked her what marriage meant to her, and she said: sex."

"I've been in and out of love with him, and he's very sincere, but he can easily change his mind.

Later, there was a period of time when he couldn't do that thing. I helped him for a long time before he could do it.

He felt dependent on me and thought that I was good at sex but he was not. Later, he finally decided to marry me, and I think this had something to do with it.”

Sex is not necessarily the most important thing in marriage

There is a view that sexual harmony is the most important factor in the quality of marriage. From my survey, this is not entirely true. In some marriages, the sexual relationship between the two parties is not very good, but because of the good relationship, the quality of marriage is still very high. For example, a woman said that her husband has never given her sexual pleasure for many years after marriage, and she has always relied on herself to solve it; but at the same time, she said that she is very satisfied in the relationship because she knows that her husband is really good to her and she is willing to grow old with him. This shows that for the stability and durability of some marriages, the quality of sexual relationship is not decisive.