Only by understanding the wrong view of love can we regain new happiness

A breakup is something that every couple does not want to see, but it is an unavoidable problem. If your relationship always has problems and you always quarrel, it will not last long. How should you deal with a breakup? First of all, we should clarify some of our misconceptions about love.

If you love her, you must obey her in everything.

Does she always think that when she is hungry, you as her boyfriend should buy her midnight snacks? When she is not feeling well, you should take care of her? When she is unhappy, you should comfort her?

It's good to coax a woman, but if it goes on for a long time, a man will get tired of it, and it will become a time bomb buried in your heart over time.

The more I give, the more she gives back.

This is mainly for those guys who have a strong spirit of dedication. When your girlfriend wants to eat roast chicken, you immediately line up to buy roast chicken. You think that if you do this, the other party will be moved to tears and will marry you, but in fact it is not like that. You think that you have given a lot, and the other party should repay you. This is a selfish mentality that starts from yourself. Girls are afraid of this kind of love, which will make them feel stressed.

entanglement

After breaking up, many people cannot accept the reality so they deceive themselves by telling themselves that it is not true and they still try to cling to the other party. In fact, you know very well whether he will come back or not. You want to have a good talk with him about what you did wrong, but he doesn't even give you the chance to talk.

Emotional expert analysis: When you cannot accept the fact that the other person has left you, you will try every means to keep him/her. However, you don’t know that your behavior will only make him/her hate you more. Such a bitter entanglement will only be detrimental to yourself. You should clearly realize that he/she has the right to have his/her own life and you have no right to interfere. If you do not respect this, what you will lose in the end is your own dignity.

After a breakup, one should look at the relationship correctly. After all, a broken mirror cannot be mended. Even if it is sewn together, there will still be a gap in the heart.