How do men in their 40s and 50s “care” for sex?

Aging is an irresistible law of nature, and as the body ages, men's sexual desire will also decrease. Generally speaking, men's sexual desire decreases at the age of 40 and they need more stimulation. But as the saying goes, "Women are like wolves at 30 and tigers at 40", women at 40 are full of desire for sex.

Sex Scissors

The sex differences between men and women in their forties can easily lead to misunderstandings and even end sex unpleasantly. Understanding the sexual characteristics of men and women at different ages can help couples avoid misunderstandings and make sex more harmonious. For men in their forties and fifties, it is important to take good care of sex.

Men in their twenties and thirties have strong sexual desire

In their 20s, men are at the peak of their sexual life, with strong sexual desires and needs, and they often think about sex. Women at this time are ignorant about sex, have low sexual needs, and pay more attention to feelings than sex. At this time, men and women will encounter the first "sexual scissors gap" in their lives. Generally, as long as men try to be considerate of women and show more emotional care, they can eliminate the difference well. In their 30s, men's sexual needs tend to stabilize, women begin to understand sex and learn to enjoy it, and the sexual life of men and women reaches a harmonious state.

Sexual quality of men in their forties

After entering the age of 40, the sex life of men and women has entered a "troubled period". Researchers from the Paris Marriage Institute in France found that when men are 43 years old, the quality of their sex life has declined significantly. The main reason is the "sex scissors gap". On the one hand, after the age of 40, the level of male hormone secretion in men decreases, and their sexual desire and sexual ability also decrease, which affects their sex life; on the other hand, women at this age have a high sexual desire, rich sexual experience, and a greater desire for sex. Therefore, it is easy for couples to have disagreements over sex.

People in their 40s and 50s need sexual coordination most

Many sexologists in the United States believe that the age of 40 to 50 is the most uncoordinated and problematic stage for couples' sex life. Cold wars, extramarital affairs, divorces, etc. mostly occur during this decade. At this time, couples should take good care of their sex life and face difficulties together. First, men should face the changes brought about by physical aging, actively quit smoking, limit alcohol, exercise more, and slow down the decline of sexual ability. Secondly, wives should be more considerate and encourage their husbands, and they can also plan some new tricks, such as changing the location of sex, having a romantic date, etc.

Sexual performance after 50

After the age of 50, the sexual needs of men and women are clearly related to their physical health. People who are in good health and do not have chronic diseases such as high blood pressure and diabetes can maintain their sexual ability until the age of 80 or even longer. As long as both parties' bodies allow, they can continue to have sex. If they are in poor health, they should also engage in more marginal sexual behaviors such as caressing and kissing to satisfy their body and mind.

Use tools to brighten your sex life

Sex toys are very popular and widely used products for both sexes. In order to make sex life more harmonious and interesting, many couples choose to use sex toys. For people in their forties and fifties, since sex life is not as harmonious as before, it is also worth promoting to use external forces to make sex life more harmonious. If men in their forties and fifties have a short sex time and want a longer-lasting pleasure, they can try Durex O Vibrating Ring. The vibrating ring is made of high-quality medical silicone. After being put on the penis, it can safely and effectively reduce the blood flow of the penis, allowing men to last longer and giving couples more lasting pleasure.