Reasons why boys are hot and cold

He was originally very fond of you, but he was always hot and cold towards you. It is said that girls are petty and like to have a bad temper, and sometimes boys' hot and cold attitude is unacceptable. So what are the reasons for boys' hot and cold attitude? He was passionate about you one minute, and cold to you the next minute. In fact, there are only the following reasons why a man is always hot and cold towards you. Recognize the true face of boys and make your own choice whether to leave or stay.

What are the reasons why boys are sometimes hot and sometimes cold?

1. The boy doesn’t love you that much, he just seems to love you.

In daily life, many girls are deceived by some philandering men who are sweet-mouthed but have a sharp heart. They often say how much they love you, that you are his soul, that you are the only person he loves in his life, and that they miss you very much after being apart from you for an hour. Such cheesy love words are obviously fake, but girls want to hear them, and they don’t try to tell whether the man is sincere when he says such words. He shows tenderness in front of you, but once he disappears from your eyes, you will know where he is having fun. He hasn’t contacted you for a long time, so he must be thinking about you.

2. What does a boy mean to you? It's just out of concern.

In daily life, there are many boys who are all male gods. No matter which girl they are with, they are always very good to her. Just like a brother, a close lover, they care about you in detail. They always give people an illusion of liking themselves. In fact, they only come from a male god complex. When he gives up on you and turns to another girl, they will also give this care to her. They will quickly forget about this matter after they break up with the girl. They often give girls a feeling of being hot and cold. That's because he doesn't like you at all, everything is just your own wishful thinking.

3. Observe your reaction and see if it will be positive.

When two people fall in love, boys are usually more active. However, after being active for a long time, they keep delaying and do not see any reaction from the girl, nor do they show any affection for him. It is easy for boys to lose hope and gradually relax their pursuit. This is when the girl being pursued feels that the boy is hot and cold towards her and is not sincere enough. In fact, it is because the girl does not understand the boy. Maybe if the girl takes the initiative once, it will ignite the boy's desire for you and make him actively pursue her again.