How long is normal for men to have sex?

Many men think that the longer the sex time is, the better. If it is too short, they feel sorry for the woman. They like to use the length of sex to measure their ability. In fact, this is a wrong concept. It will be at least 1 minute, and the average is about 3 minutes. If there is a proper break, plus a change of concept, delaying ejaculation, the duration of their sex life can be 10 minutes or even 30 minutes, and sometimes even longer.

Sexual function in middle-aged men and menopausal women

The sexual desire of men between the ages of 50 and 60 does not necessarily decrease, and may even be somewhat more excited. Sexual function is even maintained until the age of 60-70.

After the age of 40, the frequency of sexual life should not exceed once every 4 days, and after the age of 50, once a week is appropriate. This standard value is only a boundary value, not a basis.

What is normal sexual function?

It can give sufficient sexual excitement and introduce the male genitals into the female vagina. It is the first stage of sexual life.

The effective limit of male sexual ability is 5-10 minutes. During this period of time, the male pelvic thrust posture can effectively reach 50-100 times/minute. The frequency of sexual life is greatly affected by the local factors, so it is impossible to judge the level of sexual function. If the frequency of male sexual life is maintained between once a week and twice a day, it is normal.

Sex lasts too long

Many people will show off how good their sexual function is and how long they can last. In fact, this is definitely "abnormal" because sexual activity is meant to enjoy that kind of pleasure and joy. One should never emphasize the length of time and turn it into a "destroying" self or partner. Therefore, there is no need to be self-conscious because the time is too short, nor to show off because the time is too long.

As for the reasons, first, men are born with strong control over ejaculation. But if we make such a distinction, the prerequisite is that men can completely control the time of ejaculation very well by themselves, and they can ejaculate quickly or slowly as they wish.

Second, if it takes so many years to ejaculate, it is not because of strong self-control, but because of physiological or psychological reasons that prevent normal ejaculation, such as poor central or cervical venous sensitivity, long-term friction training since childhood that prevents the ability to ejaculate, and weaker penis hardness after middle age, which weakens the friction stimulation of ejaculation.

Third, we must also consider the problem of adverse drug reactions (including ethanol, methamphetamine, etc.), such as antidepressants often have the effect of inhibiting male ejaculation.

Fourth, if you can eliminate the problem of long-term medication, you should also consider what aspects can catalyze the reaction and accelerate the man's orgasmic response. Such as what postures? What imagination? What kind of natural environment atmosphere?

There is no fixed standard for the frequency of sex. It depends on the preferences, intentions, mentality, age, physical fitness and the body's reaction after sex. Sex should be a time of passion and sexual desire, not a rigid plan. For example, when the child goes to college, some couples will use Thursday as "sex day" because the child will be home on Friday night. Of course, this is something everyone agrees on, and it is not easy to reach a consensus.

Being too rigid is not good, and it is even worse if there is no intimacy. Here is a family sex plan: "once a week, no make-up for business trips, no waiting for late ones". It is said that "food, sex, and sex are also", so it can be seen that the same key, we eat "three times a day, improve when going out, and make up for the late ones", why does "sex" in real life become an irrelevant thing? ! The impatient man will naturally complain, and if it goes on for a long time, he will run out to eat snacks one day.