The dangers of long-term singleness for men

Due to the increasing competitive pressure in today's society and the imbalance in the ratio of men to women, some men will become single for a long time. Long-term singleness is harmful to men both psychologically and physically. First, it will cause men to have low self-esteem and social disabilities. In addition, long-term single men will have endocrine disorders. At the same time, long-term singleness will cause abnormal concepts. You can learn about the dangers.

1. Men who have been single for a long time will have low self-esteem psychologically and avoid socializing. They will reflect on themselves even if they have done nothing wrong. They lack confidence in their daily lives and feel helpless in both being a person and doing things. When they meet a man they love or are married to, they neither go to the river to envy the fish nor retreat to make a net. They usually become depressed. In fact, this is caused by long-term psychological repression.

2. The relationship between a long-term single man and his relatives and friends will deteriorate. Perhaps it is because long-term singleness causes endocrine disorders in men, and physiological disorders lead to psychological imbalances. Long-term single men will be impatient or anxious, usually the closer they are to the people, the more so. Losing temper has become commonplace, and they are polite to outsiders. They almost stop visiting friends and wish to isolate themselves.

3. A man who has been single for a long time will adapt to the single life to the point that he is reluctant to make changes. He can be described as being trapped in his own cage. He thinks being single is great and there is no need to fall in love or get married. He will sneer at the so-called dangers of being single and will turn a deaf ear to his parents' urging. Even if he meets the right girl, a man who has been single for a long time will have no desire. It is not that he has no chance or has not discovered the opportunity, but that he is not sure about the opportunity.

4. Long-term single men will experience a significant decline in their physiological functions, perhaps due to the principle of use it or lose it. After all, people who have not exercised for a long time will either sit or lie down. Over time, the parts of the body that have not been exercised for a long time will degenerate in the form of muscle atrophy until they completely lose their functions, and the related diseases that men are afraid of will come unexpectedly.

5. Dealing with women requires skills, and skills are the result of practice makes perfect. However, if single men do not use them for a long time, even the skills they have mastered previously will become obsolete. As the saying goes: three days without practice, the hands become awkward; three days without practice, the mouth becomes awkward. What's more, single men have not practiced for years, and their skills are not updated. They are already regressing. They can neither keep up with the times nor the trend in picking up girls, and their methods of pursuing girls are impractical and unrealistic.

6. Being single for a long time will disturb a man's life. He will often be distracted. He has to think about both love and career, which leads to him not being able to devote all his energy to either love or career. A man who has been single for a long time is very likely to fall into a vicious cycle. A mediocre career leads him to fall into a long-lasting love. After all, career and love are complementary to each other. As the saying goes: behind every successful man there is a great woman. Without a great woman to act as a hero behind the scenes, it is extremely difficult for a man to succeed, and even if he succeeds, the chance of success is only one in ten thousand.