What to do if you have no sexual interest in your wife

Sex is a common thing, but it is also a factor that affects our lives. Sometimes we may encounter a situation where we feel we have no sexual interest in our wife. Common reasons include problems with the man’s own condition, or the man has run out of interest in his wife. The monotonous state makes him feel boring. But no matter what, this is an unhealthy state and needs to be resolved. Here are explanations and solutions to the reasons for lack of sexual desire. I hope they can help you.

Why do men have no desire?

1. A man’s lack of desire may be due to a disease of his sexual organs.

The reason why people can generate sexual desire is due to the male hormone secreted by the sexual organs. Therefore, sexual indifference is related to the secretion of male hormones. When the male hormone secretion is reduced, the sexual desire will decrease. Common diseases that lead to the decrease of male hormones include orchitis and epididymitis.

2. Men’s lack of desire may be due to sexual tension

The relationship between the couple is tense, emotionally unharmonious, and even hostile. There is no communication and lack of respect between the couple. As the attraction between the couple weakens, the sexual desire also decreases day by day. However, once the relationship between the couple improves, sexual dysfunction will become a thing of the past.

3. A man’s lack of desire may be a sign of mental illness

Neuropsychiatric diseases include neurasthenia, depressive psychosis, abnormal personality and other diseases. Because sexual desire is controlled by the nervous system, if the nervous system is diseased, people will lose interest in sex life and become sexually indifferent.

4. Men’s lack of desire may be due to endocrine system diseases

Women often talk about endocrine disorders, but rarely understand that men can also have endocrine disorders. Human sexual desire is closely related to the endocrine system. The various hormones secreted by the endocrine system can regulate human sexual function. If the endocrine system is out of balance, such as hypothyroidism, adrenal cortex insufficiency, pituitary dysfunction, etc.

5. Signs of strong sexual desire

When hearing sensitive topics, they appear particularly excited and positive. Especially when seeing intimate contact in TV or movies, they will have desires. If it is a woman, her lower body will be very wet, and her uterus will seem to be moving, and she will be particularly eager. Men will use masturbation to satisfy themselves. When we feel that our sexual desire is strong, we must avoid the misfortune brought by sexual desire and not let sexual desire control us. Don't hurt others in order to satisfy yourself. It is normal to have a strong sexual desire, but it is misfortune if it is not controlled.

When is a man's sexual desire strongest?

At 7 o'clock in the morning, the male sex hormone level will be higher, about 20% higher than usual, so most men will have a stronger sexual desire in the early morning, especially after having a sexual dream. At 9 o'clock in the morning, the hormone level will drop to a normal level, and at about 11 o'clock, the male hormone level will rise again. Secondly, from 7 to 10:30 in the evening is also the time when male sexual desire is stronger. In addition, everyone's life routine is different, so the time of sexual desire varies from person to person.

The male testosterone level is in a peak shape. It will begin to rise sharply during puberty and reach its peak in the twenties and thirties. The demand for sexual desire, the occurrence of sexual excitement, and the frequency and ability of erections will also reach the highest. After the age of 40, the production of androgen will begin to decline. After the age of 50, the secretion of androgen will decrease by about one third. In addition, male testosterone levels will fluctuate with the change of seasons. Male androgen levels are lowest in spring and highest in autumn.

What to do if a man loses his libido

In this situation, a quarrel may occur between the couple, destroying their relationship, or causing more trouble to the husband and further anger to the wife, worsening the family atmosphere and doing nothing to help.

It is beneficial for a wife to understand her husband in middle age. Understanding will lead to consideration, which will make the wife look gentle and speak sweetly, and the husband will feel warm when he returns home. When the husband is in a low mood, the wife may say some good comments and good encouragement to him, and she will eventually get the warm return from her husband.

When the husband feels tired, the wife may give him some personal space and not disturb him. When the husband is willing to tell his wife about his career problems, she can listen patiently. In terms of sex life, although the frequency of sexual intercourse between middle-aged couples will decrease, the sexual life of the couple actually includes the warm atmosphere created between the couple, mutual care and care, common activities and other aspects. The considerate wife will also use these to meet the sexual needs of both parties.

In short, if a wife wants to improve her husband's "sexual boredom" in middle age, she must first give him understanding and consideration. In addition, if her husband is often under great pressure or in a bad mood, she can persuade him to see a psychologist so that he can maintain a healthy mind.