How long is normal for sex?

Sex between men and women is a normal physiological need in life. From a certain perspective, it is also a way to promote feelings for each other. Sexual intercourse should last about ten minutes. Some people can last more than 30 minutes. The length of sexual intercourse depends on the physical strength of both parties, as well as their physical conditions.

Generally speaking, the sexual process between men and women starts with hugging, caressing, and kissing, and ends with hugging and the man's ejaculation. This process can be as short as a few minutes or as long as several hours.

But real sexual intercourse means that the sexual organs of both parties are fully in contact, the penis rubs and twitches in the vagina until ejaculation, and this process can be as short as tens of seconds or as long as tens of minutes. There is such a big contrast because the individual differences of each couple are extremely drastic. A survey found that the average time for healthy men to have sex is 6 minutes; a sample survey of healthy couples by sexologists showed that 76% of men ejaculated within 2 minutes, 25% of people could last about 10 minutes; only a very small number of people could last more than 30 minutes in one intercourse. In fact, the length of one intercourse is not very important. What is important is that both parties can get sexual satisfaction, which is a perfect sex life.

In addition, the length of a man's sexual intercourse duration is related to his mood, environment, age, physical condition, sexual experience, and the degree of cooperation between the two parties. One should not simply blame himself for being "not good enough" and worry about it. For example, people usually ejaculate quickly during first intercourse or after a long separation. After a period of adjustment, the duration of sexual intercourse can be prolonged. There is no need to always worry about failure again.

Of course, from the perspective of sexual physiology, there is a normal reference value for each sexual intercourse. Generally speaking, it is normal for a man to have sexual intercourse for more than 2 minutes, with more than 15 thrusts, or for a woman to orgasm in 50% of sexual intercourse opportunities. In your letter, you said that 3 or 4 minutes is normal. If the woman's satisfaction is low, the cooperation between the two parties should be strengthened.

There is a correlation between prostate disease and the duration of sexual intercourse, but it is not a necessary relationship. Frequent masturbation can easily cause premature ejaculation, so it should be gradually reduced until it is eliminated. A good relationship between husband and wife is also the basis of sexual harmony. It is recommended that this reader put aside his mental burden, fully caress his wife before sexual intercourse, and increase the foreplay time. As a wife, you should encourage your husband more and help him eliminate his worries, so that perfect sex can become a lubricant to enhance the relationship between husband and wife.

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