What does it feel like to ejaculate?

Ejaculation is a very wonderful feeling. When a man reaches climax during sex, he will ejaculate, which is also the prerequisite for reproduction. The feeling of ejaculation is different for different people, but the overall sense of satisfaction and pleasure is basically similar. If you want to know the feeling, you must have a comprehensive understanding of the formation and mechanism of ejaculation. So, what does it feel like when you ejaculate? Let's take a detailed look below.

Male orgasm is a feeling of relaxation, comfort, numbing, electric shock, and high physical and mental satisfaction that radiates from the groin to the whole body. It lasts for a few seconds and begins and ends with ejaculation. When a man ejaculates, semen gushes out from the scrotum through the penis at a very fast speed, just like a volcanic eruption, into the woman's vagina. This is the reaction of a man reaching orgasm.

Ejaculation is a reflex. If a man can really control his ejaculation process, then he can enjoy a high level of sexual arousal in any situation and choose when to ejaculate. He can let his sexual arousal reach a very high level and then temporarily drop to a lower level, then let it rise again, and then drop again, and go through such repeated fluctuations until he wants to ejaculate. In other words, he can keep the level of sexual arousal at the plateau level for a long time, and he can also complete the ejaculation reflex in time when his wife feels satisfied. In contrast, the sexual excitement of a man who cannot control the ejaculation process will rise straight up from zero and reach orgasm quickly, often without an obvious plateau. Not only his partner, but also he himself is dissatisfied with this, but he has no ability to choose this, so both husband and wife often fall into a dilemma. Since ejaculation control is a technical or habitual problem, its prognosis is not too bad. 80% of men can master this technique after 8 to 12 weeks of treatment and training. The manifestations of lack of ejaculation control are varied. Some men cannot control it no matter what kind of sexual activity; some only have premature ejaculation during sexual intercourse, but not during other sexual activities such as masturbation. Most men with premature ejaculation also have impotence. If both exist at the same time, the erection problem must be solved first, and then the premature ejaculation problem can be solved.

It is not clear why there are such large differences in men's ability to control ejaculation; nor is it clear why some men get better at it with age and experience, while others never have it. But one thing is clear: premature ejaculation is not as much about organic problems or the effects of drugs as impotence is. It is mainly related to lack of knowledge, concentration or skills. It is also clear that abstinence will aggravate the condition. Even a normal man will ejaculate too quickly when he first resumes sexual activity if he does not have sexual intercourse for several weeks. In addition, anxiety can also cause loss of control. For example, premature ejaculation often occurs during the first sexual intercourse of the night, but it improves after the second sexual intercourse. Generally speaking, men who lack the ability to control themselves simply fail to take the necessary behavioral regulation measures when they are highly aroused but have not yet ejaculated. This may be because they are not focused on their feelings and therefore cannot take appropriate actions; because they do not know when to adjust their pace in action; because they do not know what kind of adjustment should be made. British sexologist Ziebgerd proposed the following training plan.

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