Why does ejaculation feel so good?

During sexual intercourse, both men and women will experience sexual stimulation and brain excitement. This is also physiologically called orgasm. The reason for this reaction is that people feel very happy after being sexually stimulated, and men will ejaculate after reaching orgasm. Ejaculation sometimes causes symptoms such as body twitching. Let's learn why ejaculation feels so good.

Orgasm refers to the physical and psychological response to sexual pleasure after sexual stimulation. Usually there are physiological manifestations such as ejaculation, blushing, and convulsions.

In today's harmonious society, family is the basic cell of society, and sex is an important part of the family. Therefore, sexual harmony is the basis for building a harmonious society. A satisfying orgasm is an important sign of sexual harmony. A harmonious sex life will make the family and society harmonious. Paying attention to orgasm is a manifestation of social civilization and progress.

Male orgasm

Most male orgasms are expressed as ejaculation, which lasts only about 3 to 10 seconds. After ejaculation, the orgasm ends, and the penis gradually loses its erection. This is called the flaccid phase. According to a survey report by sexologist Dr. Hatore, about 17% of male orgasms are expressed as anal contraction alone, and the contraction time can be slightly longer than ejaculation, about 1 to 2 minutes. After the orgasm ends, the anus gradually relaxes.

Orgasm is often achieved by rubbing the nipples or caressing the penis. Male orgasm is also related to prostate stimulation, so in recent years the prostate is also called the male G-spot. Ejaculation is also the end of orgasm, and the penis will gradually get out of the erection state. When men receive prostate massage or anal sex, accompanied by certain sexual psychological effects, they can induce orgasm, the so-called prostate pleasure, and can also induce ejaculation without erection.

Orgasm without ejaculation

Male orgasm pleasure is not caused by ejaculation of semen: some people have multiple sexual intercourses in one day, and the last sexual intercourse often results in pleasure without ejaculation. The reason for the pleasure is that the contraction of the gonads and pelvic floor muscles occurs as usual, while the reason for the lack of semen ejaculation is that the stored semen has been ejaculated after multiple consecutive sexual intercourses, so there is pleasure and ejaculation action without semen discharge. Ejaculation is not the ultimate goal.

1. Make it clear that orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. Adult men can ejaculate without sexual activity and orgasm, and those who do not ejaculate can also experience orgasm. Although modern medicine has proven that forcing yourself not to ejaculate is not good for your health, this theory has also become a motivation for special groups such as those with premature ejaculation, retrograde ejaculation, and vas deferens obstruction to muster up the courage to have sex. For example, for men with premature ejaculation, if they can properly control the time of ejaculation, they can increase the pleasure of the sexual plateau period and ultimately increase the intensity of the orgasm.

2. The closer the relationship, the easier it is for men to get sexual pleasure, and men can have multiple orgasms. Most men believe that the process of getting an orgasm is linear, so during sex, they are more concerned about how to control their behavior so that their wives can have multiple orgasms. However, experts have found in their research that because orgasm and ejaculation do not completely overlap, men can also have multiple orgasms.

The key for men to achieve multiple orgasms is not to focus the sexual experience on ejaculation. Through continuous training during sexual intercourse, they can find the critical point before ejaculation and stop sexual stimulation when they have obvious pleasure but have not reached the ejaculation threshold. Repeating this many times and finally ejaculating is equivalent to achieving several orgasms without ejaculation and one orgasm with ejaculation.

3. Slow down and breathe more deeply. Many couples know how to caress each other to reach orgasm. If you want to have an unexpected surprise in bed and increase the pleasure before orgasm, the method is simple: make love as before, but this time consciously slow down and take several times longer to experience it slowly.

Holding your breath can increase muscle tension and strength. Unlike heart rate and blood pressure, the respiratory system is the only physiological system that can be artificially controlled while being affected by sex. Deep breathing can promote blood flow to the sexual organs and increase the power of orgasm.