Why can't men find a girlfriend?

Many people can't find a girlfriend and attribute all the reasons to objective factors. In fact, many details can also make you unable to find a girlfriend. So what are the specific reasons why men can't find a girlfriend?

Just care about gentleness

Most men think that as long as they are considerate and obedient to women, they can win their favor. In fact, this may be a big mistake! After reading the analysis of many psychological experts, it turns out that even the most normal women have the mentality of relying on men. Every woman needs a man with opinions and courage to be her protector. Because they don't love, they will give everything when they love. Just think about it, they are stupid enough to attach themselves to a weak person? When dealing with women, you should give orders when you are proactive; when you are tough, you should also be tough to the end.

Don’t pretend to be competent

When women ask men to help them with something, many men will pat their chests and promise to do it, but in the end they do it terribly and drag their feet. This will not win their understanding. It is better to do what you can in the beginning and refuse politely when you know you are not up to the task. They may think you are honest and keep a good impression of you.

Don't act coldly

In fact, most women are frivolous, but they don't like men to be frivolous. As a man, you must be prepared and know that you should be generous with your money when going out with women, and at least you should not appear cold and sour. If you don't have money, don't date.

Don't be absent-minded

When dating a woman, a man should concentrate and pay attention to her conversation and intentions at all times. If you are absent-minded all the time, staring at her questions and topics and not knowing what to say, it will be very disappointing for her! Next time you want to date her again, she may treat you to a ton of lemons. So, let go of things that often disturb your mind! For example, if someone often calls your mobile phone, just turn it off! You won’t die if you answer fewer calls!

Don't ask about age

No matter how honest and sincere a woman is, when she mentions her age, she will try her best to dodge, conceal or even lie! A middle-aged woman with white hair will tell you that she doesn't know what "Star Wars" is, and ask you if you know the sequel of "The Force Awakens: Earth Strikes Back"? In short, women under 18 and over 60 don't care much about their age. So when facing a woman, you can ask almost any question, but remember not to involve her age.