Men are most afraid of women checking these 4 things, do you know?

A good marriage is the result of careful management by two people. It requires two people to understand, respect and love each other. So what are the things that men are most afraid of women seeing in life?

1. Mobile Phone

Every woman in love or marriage will always be suspicious of her beloved man. For example, she will be self-righteous and secretly check the man's phone. She will check the phone address book to see how many new numbers there are. Which names are those of cute girls? She will check the call log to see when they talked on the phone. Why did the call last for an hour? Especially, there are many messages in the text box, but there is no word about that name. Has he deleted all of them?

As one of the most powerful yet most maddening inventions of mankind, the mobile phone has become the most important thing in people's lives. It records almost all of people's life circles. So, peeking into a man's mobile phone is equivalent to peeking into his life.

The direct consequence is that the two of you become disgusted with each other and part ways unhappily. So, if you don't want to end a relationship because of the little messages you collected in your phone, you might as well stay away from the man's phone and be content to be a virtuous woman who lives a carefree life.

2. Chat History

Do you really want to know why a man is still typing away every day while he waits for you to fall asleep? Why does he secretly change all the passwords for his online communication methods such as QQ, MSN, EMAIL, etc.? A woman's intuition will definitely tell you that there must be something wrong with this man.

Yes, there must be a name that appears frequently in his chat history, and it is often the kind of conversations they have late into the night, and the topics they talk about are heartfelt and intimate. Wouldn't you be sad? You are the closest person to this man, but he is willing to communicate with a strange woman who he doesn't know what she looks like through an Internet when he has something on his mind.

If you forcefully demand to see the chat history and you find that internet sweetheart, what can you do? Vote at her online, or try your best to find her and have a big fight with her? You know, this will only cause shame and rebellion in the man.

Therefore, don't try to control every detail of a man's life, especially don't rudely disrupt his privacy, but start with his heart. The effect of subtly winning his heart is far greater than fighting with him.

3. Wallet

Opening a man's wallet is like uncovering his mysterious veil, and seeing his worth and secrets clearly. Cash and credit cards are the material basis for a man's great image; various invoices and consumption receipts are the clues of a man's daily life; and there are various small compartments, where the intimate and secret documents that a man cannot let go are hidden. So, whether you are a man's woman, confidante, or just a good colleague, don't open his wallet casually.

Extending from the wallet, there are many more taboos. For a family, both husband and wife need to have their own small treasury, so that women can covet new cosmetics without having to look at men's faces, and men don't have to ask their wives for money every time they get together with their friends to drink. At this time, the last thing a woman should do is to keep an eye on the man's spending all day to see if he spends this little private money on other women.

You know, the devil is always stronger than the righteous. No matter how sharp your eyes are, you can't beat someone who really wants to deceive you. So why not relax? Maybe he just spent money to order the accessories you have been eyeing for a long time!

4. Hidden files in your computer

Men can be clever sometimes. For example, he knows that computers are unreliable, so he decides to pack and compress the things he wants to hide, and adds a password. But then he thinks it's still unreliable, so he changes the file's attributes to hidden.

A smart woman should know when to stop. For him as a male colleague, maybe this document is full of his work plan, and he is very careful not to let his colleagues in the office, especially the female colleagues who are driving side by side with him, see it. Then, you'd better not see it, otherwise men in the workplace will be more troublesome than women if they are serious about it; for him as your lover, maybe this document is his old love letters, diaries, or even photos of his first love. In short, if he doesn't want to open up to you, then you'd better not kick down this door.