What is the four-month period of love? What are the stages of love?

In the eyes of modern people, most people who enter into marriage have had a love affair. If marriage is likened to a fruit, then love is a blooming flower. So what stage is a relationship in its fourth month?

What is the stage of four months of love?

We generally divide love into five stages, namely the passionate period, the adjustment period, the stable period, the commitment period, and the co-creation period. When the relationship reaches four months, it is almost the adjustment period.

1. Passionate Love

During this period, you always miss each other every day.

Even if there are some things about the other person that make you a little unhappy, you will tell yourself that he will change for you.

You look forward to seeing him every day and feel very happy when you see him.

There are a lot of expectations and imaginations about him, and he is always full of enthusiasm and energy.

2. Run-in period

You had some expectations for this relationship, but things did not go as you wished.

You hope to change him and therefore often quarrel with him, always thinking that he should do things his way.

Every time you quarrel, the problem is still not solved. Not long after, you quarrel about the same thing again.

Sometimes after a quarrel, you often feel helpless and think: "Oh, forget it! Anyway, we can just do our own things..."

3. Stable Period

During this period, you will find that there are many differences between you and the other person and want to understand why there are these differences.

You know what his flaws are and try to accept them.

You are willing to show your weak and vulnerable self in front of him.

When the baby is feeling sad, he will speak out instead of keeping it in his heart and waiting for the other party to guess.

4. Commitment Period

During this period, you will feel that your relationship has come a long way and you will believe that there is hope for the future.

You begin to realize that the relationship you "imagined" and the person in front of you are not the same person, and you are willing to accept this gap.

Despite this, you still hope that you can be with each other for a long time.

You will no longer just make demands on the other person, but will begin to understand the problems in your relationship. Both parties must have some responsibility, and you are both willing to try to make some changes starting with yourselves.

5. Co-creation Period

You can imagine what it will be like for the two of you to be together ten or twenty years from now, and be willing to work hard for that future.

You know what you really want, what your life goals are, and are willing to support each other's dreams and goals.

When you walk on the road of your dreams with him, you will feel very fulfilled and happy.

Even though you've been together for several years, you want to get to know him better and feel that the relationship is still alive and well.