Three times you must save face for men

The wife should understand the husband's psychology. He just doesn't want to be seen as henpecked. In fact, he does feel a little sorry. Give men some opportunities to make their own decisions, even if it's just temporary or superficial.

A woman of taste will understand her husband

It is especially important for intellectual women to handle small misunderstandings with their husbands and use subtle words and gestures to communicate the relationship between husband and wife. Think back to whether you have had this experience:

You find in your life that when those pretty and smart girls come to your home, your husband is always more excited, more expressive, and more graceful than when he is with you. Every time this happens, you tend to feel left out, depressed and frustrated, but you have to appear calm on the surface. Sometimes you even wonder if your husband doesn't love you anymore, so you deliberately show displeasure or complain after the girls leave, which makes your husband puzzled and ask, "What's wrong with you?" But you think he is asking knowingly.

Don’t accuse your husband of being “immoral” right away. He may get angry.

In fact, if your husband is simply more affectionate and talkative around other women sometimes than he is with you, then that's perfectly normal. The fault is yours.

Because, at that time, the husband might just want to show off his talent and wisdom. And it is reasonable that the girl's admiring and eager eyes and praise might make him want to show off more.

Men in particular are very concerned about their reputation. If you don't give him a good look in public, he will be embarrassed and then get annoyed by your "boringness".

Also, have you ever experienced this:

One day when you came home, you suddenly saw your husband bringing a bunch of uninvited guests, who bought a lot of cigarettes, alcohol, meat and dishes, making the whole house a mess. You were very unhappy, and hurried into the bedroom with a forced smile, because it was obvious that you didn't know they were here. Isn't this a sign that your husband looks down on you and doesn't respect you?

If you think so, you may be wrong again. Imagine that when your husband's colleagues or old friends meet, they all suggest getting together, and your husband generously says, "Come to my house." But others deliberately ask, "Do you need to say hello to your sister-in-law?" The husband is naturally masculine and proud, and pats his chest and says, "We don't have such a rule in our family."

The wife should understand her husband's psychology. He just doesn't want to be seen as henpecked. In fact, he does feel a little apologetic in his heart.

Give men some opportunities to make their own decisions

There are many similar things. If you don't pay attention, it is very likely that there will be trouble out of nothing. Therefore, you should understand your husband's words and never make random guesses, so as not to lose your temper with him, making your husband wonder why you are upset and making the peaceful days restless.

Some wives like to study health issues. They constantly emphasize to their husbands the importance of exercise, diet structure, and regular medical examinations. Moreover, no matter what the husband eats or drinks, the wife will nag about the toxicity of various foods. However, what she cannot understand is that the more she talks, the less he listens. The reason is that he feels that he is being treated like a child and it is too embarrassing.

Excessive consideration can make people feel suffocated. Sometimes, being inconsiderate is actually a form of consideration. For example, when a few friends go to a coffee shop together, you quietly add milk and sugar cubes to his glass. You may think this is a kind of consideration, but some men do not like to be overly considerate in public. As long as you push the milk and sugar cubes in front of him as if nothing has happened, he will understand.

In public situations, even if you understand the other person's intentions and needs very well, when you are about to do something for him or her, you should first consider his or her self-esteem before you express your willingness.