Why are “little men” more likely to cheat?

Nowadays, more and more "big women" have found their favorite "little men", which is commonly known as "sister-brother love". However, since the physical and mental development of "little men" is not yet complete, many people are not optimistic about it. Let's take a deep look at why "little men" are prone to cheating.

The difference in mental development between siblings

There is an obvious dilemma in the relationship between an older woman and a younger man. Some of the characteristics that initially attracted the younger man to the older woman may become the reason for the failure of the relationship or marriage after a few years of living together. When the men are not yet mature enough psychologically, they will feel that women who are a few years older than them are more mature, more socially experienced, more considerate, and more intelligent in dealing with problems. However, as time goes by, the men's psychology gradually matures, their social experience continues to grow, and their understanding of things becomes more comprehensive and profound.

At this point, the marriage problem that may be encountered is that the original beauty of the wife is either taken for granted or becomes a constraint. There is a partner who is like an elder by your side, but around you are a group of young beauties who admire you. Men's unique preference for "women in their 20s", their inner need for recognition and the many temptations in the open world may prompt them to fall in love with someone else.

The biggest challenge of a sister-brother relationship is meeting a little man who never grows up

From a psychological perspective, the biggest challenge of an age-gap relationship is encountering a "little man who never grows up"! Men themselves are children who never grow up. If they face a wife who is much older than themselves, they are more likely to become a little man who never grows up.

First, a little man who falls in love with "Mother" will never grow up.

Generally speaking, when a man falls in love with a woman who is much older than him, the underlying subconscious motivation is the "Oedipus complex," also known as the "Oedipus complex." In front of the mother, the child is always a child. Even if the man matures physically and mentally over time, it is difficult to break through the child's respect and fear of the mother in the subconscious.

Second, "mature women" cannot humble themselves and find it difficult to attract mature husbands.

Women are more mature and perfect than men. If they cannot lower their self-esteem in front of their young husbands, and if they accidentally and involuntarily play the role of mother, and if they do not know how to satisfy men's heroic complex when they are together, and do not know how to bring out women's gentleness and loveliness, it will be even more difficult to induce a truly mature man.

The difference in physical development between siblings

When two people are young, the physical differences between them are naturally not obvious under the nourishment of love. However, the flowers will wither no matter how beautiful they are, and the women will age no matter how beautiful they are. The marriage crisis of a woman older than a man is likely to occur when the woman matures and ages physically, while the man is in his prime. At this time, the woman's involuntary anxiety and inferiority, and the man's inner comparison and desire, such a physical and mental gap will naturally make love unable to defeat passion, and family affection unable to resist temptation.