99% of men make the fatal mistake

Sometimes men and women do seem to be from two different planets. Their aesthetic concepts and sources of pleasure are very different. Even in bed, men's appreciation of their own bodies is so different from that of women. In the eyes of women, what attracts them about men's bodies is definitely not what men imagine.

"Of course" : "My private part is the sexiest part of my body"

Many men think that a strong penis is one of the most worthwhile assets to show off. In the public toilet, when two men stand side by side to solve "small problems", they always compare the size consciously or unconsciously. For men, the performance of the penis in bed has also become a barometer of his physical health and psychological stress. So, in the eyes of women, is the penis the sexiest part of a man?

In a survey on the topic of "Which part of a man do you think is the sexiest?", the penis unexpectedly failed to be selected. None of the women surveyed chose it; 26% of women chose "firm breasts" because this part "has a classic beauty", "you can smell the scent of hormones immediately", "makes people feel warm and protected"... Sexual psychologists explained that most women choose breasts because most couples in the world are still accustomed to having sex in the position of the woman on the bottom and the man on the top. When taking this most traditional missionary position, the breasts are facing the woman's eyes. Therefore, the subconscious association it brings to women is first "sex".

In addition, 19% of women chose "hand or arm" (women who chose this answer are mostly artistic and value spirit over body), 21% of women chose "nose" (women who chose this answer are stuffy and full of sexual fantasies), and less than 10% of women chose the place closest to the penis, the buttocks (the best choice for honest women who enjoy physical sensations).

The failure of the penis to be selected may be a declaration to the majority of men that "If you want to give women the best sexual experience, it is not enough to just have a beautiful and useful penis, because what women really need is often somewhere else."

The more developed the meat is, the more my sexual partner will like it."

Many men blindly pursue a good body, but not for health. In their imagination, the better their muscles are, the more they can please their partners in bed. However, research has proven that extremely muscular men are not the best sexual partners for most women. Having well-developed muscles is more to satisfy men's vanity. Surveys show that the ideal body shape for women is: gentle eyes, slender limbs, soft and elastic skin, and not too well-developed biceps and pectoralis major.

Some women say that muscular men easily remind them of sexual violence and rough sexual techniques. A large number of women admit that they dislike muscular men the most, because such women are often subconsciously narcissistic. They hope that their bodies are better than men in bed. When muscular men appear in front of them, they often immediately feel inferior and afraid, and the subsequent sex becomes boring.

In recent years, androgynous men have become popular. They are thin but have soft skin. They are polite to women and seem to pose no threat. However, they have become idols in many women's dreams. This phenomenon has a lot to do with the gradual rise of feminist ideas. At the same time, it also proves once again that muscular men are no longer popular.

"Of course": "Try to make sex last longer so that I appear diligent"

There was a pilot who would try to prolong his sex time after every flight, with the foreplay and afterplay lasting up to 2-3 hours, and the time to enter the subject would never be less than one hour. This seemed to be his wife's happiness to others, but the woman complained that the long sex made her physically exhausted, but the husband was very dissatisfied, because he had learned that women's orgasm comes slower than men's, so the longer the sex time, the easier it is for women to orgasm, so he tried his best to prolong the sex time every time.

The problem lies in the public's erroneous understanding of the process of achieving orgasm. Women do not achieve orgasm later than men, but are more passive than men. If you are an experienced sex lover, you can find a woman's G-spot, A-spot and U-spot in a few minutes and quickly make her reach orgasm. In addition, even if a man is not so enthusiastic and active, a woman will quickly reach orgasm if she finds the right position. Deliberately prolonging sex in pursuit of a woman's orgasm, in addition to making the body tired, is often accompanied by questions from men such as "Have you reached it?" and "Are you comfortable?" In the eyes of women, this deliberateness will make them rebellious, and the orgasm that was about to come will also be suppressed due to psychological factors. Once an orgasm is suppressed during sex, it is difficult to achieve it again. And for men, deliberately prolonging the time of sex and having no time to enjoy the real pleasure of sex is really not worth it.

"Of course": "My favorite sex position is her favorite"

Due to the different body structures of men and women, their inclinations in sexual positions are also different. Although there are dozens of sexual positions listed in sex textbooks, in real life, the most common ones are "missionary (woman on bottom, man on top)", "woman on top, man on bottom", "backward" and "sideways". Among them, "missionary" can directly stimulate the sensitive organs of men and women, but it can easily make men feel tired; while "backward" has the strongest pressure on the penis, which can make the ejaculation force more concentrated and fierce, so it is popular with many men.

However, most women do not like the "backward entry" position, because this animal-like position makes them feel ashamed of being raped, and it is not easy to get an orgasm. If they do it occasionally, it is still fresh and exciting, but they will get disgusted if they do it too many times. Their favorite positions are mostly "woman on top" - because this gives them a sense of conquest of dominating men, and "sideways entry" - they feel safe and it feels good to be hugged from the side.

Some men also like the "69 position", which is to put the head and tail together and give oral sex to each other at the same time. This position seems to respect the sexual feelings of the other party. However, the survey found that this position is not liked by most women because it is easy to make people lose their concentration and not focus on enjoying the stimulation of a certain part. And women need more of that kind of exclusive and valued feeling in bed.