Hair can also reflect sexual ability

Hair is one of the signs of a person's "secondary sexual characteristics" and the only sexual characteristic that a person can show off publicly. A head of beautiful hair and a pleasing hairstyle often bring people a kind of inner joy. The beautiful, elegant, soft, and charming feminine beauty it displays, as well as the strong, bold, and elegant masculinity, all reveal the connotation of human sexual culture.

Three characteristics of youth: dense, black, and bright

A happy and harmonious sex life can promote hair growth. Most people whose hair is still thick, black and shiny after middle age have the same sexual function as before and still have youthful vitality. Sexual repression will slow down hair growth. Sexual dysfunction often causes hair diseases. Sparse hair and severe hair loss are also one of the signs of decreased sexual ability.

Some men are afraid of baldness because hair has a symbolic role, and baldness often symbolizes the weakening of energy. Hair has a special sexual connotation and hides the gene of love. No wonder the ancients likened it to "three thousand strands of troubles". Some people now call it a unique body language with many sexual information symbols. In this way, whether men or women, how can they not cherish the beautiful hair on their heads?

Hair has a "maddening allure"

The famous sexologist Eliot once said in his book "Sexual Psychology": "Hair is extremely seductive. It is related to the four senses of sight, hearing, smell and touch in sexual selection." In heterosexual interactions, people attach great importance to the grooming of their hair, especially young women, who carefully dress up.

For thousands of years, people have spent endless amounts of money, energy, and intelligence on shaping, dyeing, curling, straightening, gluing, powdering, perming, tying, braiding, and greasing hair. In medieval Persia, for example, poets praised a woman's curls hanging down her temples as "a mysterious and insane charm."

In the history of human evolution, hair styles reflect the degree of sexual repression and freedom. For monks and nuns to shave their heads and become monks is a great state of mind for those who have seen through the world, meaning that they will enter the monastery, lose all hope, and have no connection with sex.

In some countries, soldiers and prisoners shave their heads, which implies prohibition and deprivation of sexual activity. On the contrary, women letting their hair down, especially all at once, can be understood as a sexual symbol of indulgence and striptease in the West.

Men caressing hair is a sign of sexual affection

Out of respect for hair, no matter what the circumstances, unless it is a couple, an elder or a hairdresser, no one will touch someone else's hair easily. Hair is one of the reasons for young men and women to be attracted to each other. A girl's hair makes the man who admires her feel excited, and a man's short, thick black hair is also very attractive in the eyes of a girl.

When men and women are emotionally impulsive, they will always touch each other's hair involuntarily. Men kissing and caressing women's hair is a kind of expression and behavior of sexual love. Regardless of ancient and modern times, most women know how to stand in front of the window and comb their long hair, and how charming and romantic it is to have their hair gently brushing against their foreheads under the warm light.

Sitting on the lap of a lover, playing with the hair that exudes a faint fragrance, is undoubtedly more exciting. That is why the "Midnight Song" has such a chant: "In the past, I did not comb my hair, my hair was draped over my shoulders, and it was gently on my lover's lap, how could I not pity it." This kind of tender, romantic and sexy mood often becomes a wonderful prelude to sex.

Even the charming female ghosts in "Liao Zhai" would dress up in a coquettish way whenever they wanted to "seduce" the scholars they loved, with long hair that could not be tidied up, making the scholars' hearts flutter. During sex, women would often let their hair pile on their shoulders and their hair messy, whether intentionally or unintentionally.

Hair has been a token of love since ancient times

Since ancient times, hair has been associated with marriage, and sometimes used as a token of love. People call the first union between a man and a woman "tying the hair" and the blessing to the newlyweds is often "live together till old age". When a girl gives a commemorative box containing her hair to her beloved, it is tantamount to entrusting all her emotions and even her soul to him. Classical operas often describe cutting hair as a solemn oath, and the ending is "tying the hair to become husband and wife, loving each other without doubt".

It is said that Concubine Yang was punished by Emperor Xuanzong of Tang and was sent back to Yang's house to reflect on her mistakes. Three days later, the people sent by Emperor Xuanzong brought back a strand of Concubine Yang's hair tied with a colorful silk rope. Emperor Xuanzong was so sad that he immediately sent someone to pick her up in a carriage and fine sedan chair, and from then on he favored her even more. Abroad, the ancient Tlaxcala people in Mexico shaved their hair when they got married, both men and women, to show that they "abandoned any activities that young people engage in from now on."