What causes men to become weak during sex?

If male friends suddenly become exhausted in the middle of sexual intercourse, it will cause sexual disharmony and even have a significant impact on their sexual organs, leaving a huge psychological shadow and making it impossible for them to have sex again. They must seek psychological counseling as soon as possible to ensure that their psychology can be calmer and will not cause a greater impact on their sex life.

(1) Incorrect sexual attitudes:

Sexual anxiety caused by fear of sexual failure may be the most common cause of impotence, while inappropriate demands on sexual ability or excessive demands on the other party for sexual life are also basic causes of sexual dysfunction. In addition, another important cause of sexual dysfunction is acting as a "bystander", that is, during sexual intercourse, one party is anxious and compulsively pays attention to the other party's response, which distracts energy and hinders the establishment of appropriate sexual response and the achievement of orgasm.

(2) The impact and contradictions of past sexual experiences:

If a person has been strictly controlled, punished, treated roughly or hurt in past sexual experiences, it will leave a psychological trauma that is difficult to eliminate and it is easy to form a conditioned reflex. Once such a person faces a sexual situation again, he will unconsciously recall the past sexual trauma and experience sexual dysfunction such as impotence and lack of orgasm.

(3) The impact of interpersonal tension on sexual function:

This mainly refers to the interpersonal conflicts between the two parties in sex, such as suspicion, jealousy, distrust, etc. Obviously, strong disappointment and hostility from one party will cause the other party to react in the same way, which is harmful to sexual desire. For example, women are very sensitive to being "used". They think that the other party is only interested in her body and ignores her as a person. They think that sexual intercourse is an exploitation, conquest and degradation of her, and they cannot respond sexually. They may even lose interest in sex and feel disgusted.

(4) Psychological depression caused by various external factors:

It will also affect sexual function. The fast-paced modern life, busy work or housework, disharmony in interpersonal relationships, competition and frustration at work, personal education level and social status will all cause people to have psychological pressure. The strength of sexual desire and sexual ability is affected by psychological factors.