Changes in men after having children

The traditional concept of the Chinese is to get married and have children. After entering the marriage hall, the fruits of the couple's love begin to slowly appear. When a man has a child, he will fulfill his responsibilities as a father. Of course, the changes in boys of each zodiac sign will be different. Let us look at the changes in men after they have children. We can also introduce some tips on caring for babies to new fathers.

4. Aries

Before marriage, Aries men are rude, prone to fighting over a single disagreement, and like to be self-centered in everything. After upgrading, they unexpectedly become more empathetic and will consider the harm to their family, especially the baby, before doing anything. If there is any harm, they will try to avoid it even if it means bowing their heads.

Third place: Cancer

Cancers are actually quite patriarchal after marriage and have prominent emotional problems, but after having a baby, they suddenly transform into warm-hearted men again.

2nd place: Aquarius

Aquarius has a bad temper and may not be a good husband, but Aquarius who loves children will have an obvious personality change after the upgrade, becoming more innocent, cuter, and more childlike.

First place: Sagittarius

Sagittarius men are rather careless, don't care about details, and are particularly impatient, but once they become dads, they are unexpectedly the most perfect and qualified fathers and playmates for their children.

In fact, all parents have been through this and have made mistakes, so you will too, and it's no big deal.

The following are some of the mistakes that most parents have made. If you know about these mistakes in advance, you will have a chance to avoid them. Here is a list with some useful "tips to prevent falls".

1. Control everything down to the smallest detail

Too many new parents become overwhelmed by things that are normal behaviors of their newborns.

For example, whenever they see their baby vomiting, crying, or defecating, they worry: Is the baby sick?

They are always worried about whether the baby is eating enough, eating too little, vomiting too much, or crying too much.

"My dear, if you cry again, I will cry too..."

Tip 1:

Stop being neurotic! No matter what you observe, please relax first!

You know, babies are much more resilient than we usually think and are not that fragile at all.

In truly serious cases, of course you should go to the hospital (more on this below), but there's no need to sweat over trivial matters.

2. Try every possible way to stop your baby from crying

When a baby cries, new parents often panic and naturally want to do something to make the baby stop crying.

"What's wrong? I need to find a way to fix it!"

You know, crying is a baby's nature, and it is entirely possible for your baby to cry and still be very normal and healthy.

Even if they are well fed, have their diapers changed frequently, and appear calm, they may still cry.

Tip 2:

Don't look for reasons, there may really be no reason!

Usually, it's okay to let your baby cry. To comfort yourself, you can hug them and talk to them.

However! If the baby cries continuously for more than an hour, or has a fever, rash, or persistent vomiting while crying, you need to be alert and seek medical attention as soon as possible.