How to be good to your wife

After getting married, men and women should respect and love each other, promote each other, and not complain about each other. Men should take the initiative to be nice to women. In terms of physical strength, women are naturally weak, so men should give more and let their wives feel their love, so that they can live in harmony. However, many men are nervous and don't know how to be considerate to their wives. Next, I will introduce several ways to treat your wife better.

1. As a man, you must first fulfill your duties, be loyal and devoted to your wife, and give your wholehearted love to her. Don't think about other women, don't cheat mentally or physically, and maintain the stability and harmony of your marriage and family by being loyal and faithful. Love your wife sincerely and wholeheartedly, whether doing things or saying sweet words, you should be sincere and patient, and don't be perfunctory or play it for fun.

2. While being filial to your parents, you should also be more filial to your father-in-law and mother-in-law. They have worked hard to raise their daughter and entrusted her to you. You cannot let them down and should repay them with practical actions. Be more filial to the extent that your ability allows. You should provide them with spiritual nourishment (show concern for them) and also provide them with material support.

3. Give your wife meticulous care, express selfless love with full enthusiasm and tenderness; be patient and loving, and pay more attention to her in life. Use your broad chest, strong arms and solid shoulders to give her a sense of support and security.

4. Pay more attention and care to your wife during her four periods (menstrual period, pregnancy, lactation and menopause) to help her through the difficulties. Don't have sex during her menstrual period. In addition to pouring a cup of hot water, you can also buy her brown sugar and ginger tea, and fill a hot water bottle. If there is a shortage of equipment, take the initiative to go to the supermarket to buy it for her.

During pregnancy and breastfeeding, show more love and care to your wife, stay with her more after work, take the initiative to do housework or take care of all the housework. If you can cook, make more delicious meals to supplement your wife's nutrition; if you can't cook, buy more delicious snacks. In addition, when preparing for pregnancy and during pregnancy, read some books on pregnancy health care and scientific parenting to escort your wife's pregnancy, or help her share the responsibilities and worries of being a new mother.

When your wife is in menopause, you should show her more care and understanding, tolerate her bad temper, and comfort her with care. If her menopausal symptoms are more severe, you can take her to see a Chinese doctor for appropriate treatment.

5. When being intimate, don't be half-hearted or perfunctory, be gentle and considerate. Have foreplay beforehand, caress afterward, don't jump out of bed like a frog; even if you say a few sweet words, don't turn around and fall asleep right after you're done. Don't treat sex as a task to be completed, don't act rudely, and only care about venting yourself without caring about the woman's feelings. Never use insulting, difficult, or uncomfortable positions.

6. Appreciate your wife more. Don't compare her with other women. Don't focus on other women. No matter how beautiful a woman is, you should ignore her. No matter how good other women are, don't be jealous. You should learn to appreciate in marriage and constantly find the shining points of your wife. When she achieves some work results or puts on a new piece of clothing, you should sincerely praise her. Even if your wife has some shortcomings and unsatisfactory aspects, you should be more tolerant, tolerant and considerate of her. In some matters, put yourself in your wife's shoes and think from her perspective.

7. Respect your wife and give her enough affirmation and trust. Respect your wife in your heart, words and deeds. Be polite in family life and try to be a gentleman. No matter what you do, you should care about your wife's feelings. Discuss family affairs with her more often, do not monopolize power and be arbitrary, and do not dominate and bully at home.

8. No matter how capable you are, how much wealth you have, or how high your social status is, you should not act in front of your wife, look down on her, boss her around, or treat her like a servant. Respect your wife in your mind and in your words, and do not belittle, slander, or ridicule her, or hurt her self-esteem, let alone belittle or criticize her in public.