How long does it take for boys to have sex on average?

When the relationship between lovers develops to a certain stage, sex is a very important way to enhance the intimacy between the lovers. Sexual needs are also normal physiological needs of the human body. However, many men often feel powerless and have abnormal sexual organs during sex. This makes many men anxious. It is very necessary to understand the normal duration of male sexual intercourse. So how long does a normal male have an average intercourse?

1. Average time for normal boys

1. What people generally consider normal time

1.1. In China, for a 30-year-old man, 3 to 10 minutes is normal, and more than 15 minutes is considered amazing.

1.2. Each sexual intercourse should last at least 1 minute, and the average time is about 3 minutes. If there is a proper pause time, coupled with the change of consciousness and delayed ejaculation, the duration of sexual intercourse can be 10 minutes or even 30 minutes, and sometimes even longer.

2. Study the normal duration of sexual intercourse from the perspective of sexual physiology

2.1. From the perspective of sexual physiology, there is a normal reference value for the duration of a single sexual intercourse. Generally speaking, it is best for men to have sexual intercourse for 3 to 10 minutes each time; a few people can last up to 15 or 20 minutes.

2.2. Sexual intercourse is too short, less than 2 minutes, and often cannot arouse the woman's orgasm. It happens occasionally, but it is not a big deal. Of course, some middle-aged and elderly couples are accustomed to this and take it for granted. From insertion to ejaculation, it is generally 5-10 minutes. If it is less than 5 minutes, as long as both parties are satisfied, it is normal and healthy. There are not many people who take more than 10 minutes. Don't believe in the claims of one or two hours.

3. The normal time considered by American sexologists

3.1. American sexologists agree that the ideal duration of sexual intercourse is about 10 minutes. According to research, one or two minutes is too short to satisfy both parties, especially women's sexual needs.

3.2. Most couples think that sex lasting 3-7 minutes is "acceptable"; 10 minutes is ideal; if it exceeds 13 minutes, even if it is "long", it is easy to be exhausted and lose interest. According to traditional views, the night adds to the charm of sex and should be the perfect time for sex. However, sexologists have different views on this. They believe that the most ideal time for sex is at the beginning of the day, that is, 6-8 am. When waking up in the morning, the concentration of sex hormones in women's bodies reaches the highest value, which can bring them the greatest pleasure. Secondly, sex is a first-class means to replenish energy and mobilize emotions. During sex, the brain will secrete some chemicals. They are like anesthetics and natural antidepressants, which can ensure that both parties are relaxed and happy all day long.

2. Factors affecting men’s sexual function

1. Always working night shifts and staying up all night. In addition to night shift drivers, lathe operators and clampers who always pay attention to resting while machines are not resting often stay up late. Software developers like to work at night and also work night shifts in groups of three or five. Experts say that these men who often stay up late to work are most likely to suffer from impotence. At night, especially from 23:00 to 1:00 in the morning, is the key period for the natural yang energy to gradually weaken and gradually strengthen. Only when men get enough rest at night can they replenish their yang energy. Only when the yang energy is sufficient can the function be strong. However, staying up late for a long time will cause the imbalance of yin and yang and damage the yang energy.

2. Worrying as soon as you open your eyes, often smoking to relieve boredom. Experts suggest: Try to quit smoking, use Chinese medicine to relieve liver and depression, and be cautious in using antidepressants. Experts comment that nicotine in cigarettes can damage sperm quality and cause impotence. It is more harmful to male function than excessive drinking. Emotional depression is also a triggering factor of impotence.

3. Don't smoke often, especially when you are in a bad mood. Smoking will have an impact, your mood will become worse, and it will affect your sexual function. It is also easy to cause depression. Once you have depression, you will be disgusted with sex life and will only focus on your own depressed world. You need to have a good mood to make men's sexual function better.

It goes without saying that men have a much stronger sexual desire than women of the same age when they are young. However, recently, some people were surprised to find that men think about sex no more often than they think about sleep and food. But how much exactly?