Signs Your Boyfriend Doesn't Love You

Nowadays, many men and women are always very worried about whether the other party loves them and whether they will be really good to them when they are dating. Sometimes it is not just on the surface. If you want to judge whether a boy loves his girlfriend, you can tell from his performance. You can use the following to judge whether he loves you or what problems may arise. This way, you can discover some problems in advance and solve them in time.

If a man no longer loves you, there are two situations.

One type is that he doesn't love you anymore, but doesn't want to abandon you. This type of man will generally be less gentle than before, and you can feel a hint of coldness in his words. He will rarely do or not do many things that he normally takes the initiative to do. He seems very casual about you and life, especially listening to what you say in a disjointed way, which makes you seem very distressed.

The other type is that he doesn't love you anymore and doesn't want to be with you. This type of man is more direct in his behavior. He will ignore you and not step on you. His words will be hurtful and he may even hit you. It's natural for him to spend his time drinking and partying outside or find a new lover. When someone doesn't love you, you can tell without them telling you.

In your case, it is obvious that you are no longer attractive to your boyfriend as before. Try to change yourself. If he really still likes you, he will not ignore your changes.

1. He often calls you by your nickname unconsciously

Men don't usually show their emotions, because they have stronger self-control than women. They will only show their emotions when they are deeply touched. If he calls you by your nickname every day only after you beg him, he doesn't necessarily love you. Even if he loves you, he feels forced. If he calls you by your nickname unexpectedly when you are off guard, he really loves you, and sometimes he can't help but do it regardless of the occasion.

2. When shopping, do you pay attention to yours or his first?

When men go shopping, they are mostly cash machines and walking companions. Although some of them are also shopping enthusiasts, most of them are dragged out by women. So to see if he really loves you, just look at where his eyes are when you are looking at clothes and trying on clothes. If his eyes are always looking at beautiful women and men's brands, then he is definitely absent-minded and his love for you may not be true; if he stares at you intently and gives you feasible opinions on your trying on, then, there is no doubt that he loves you.

3. Is he used to being with you at home or entertaining himself?

If he is always used to accompanying you, watching TV, surfing the Internet, and chatting when he is free, then he must regard you as a treasure; if he just surfs the Internet alone, eats instant noodles alone, or goes out to play mahjong alone, then your love may have begun to shift more to family affection, or your love has faded.

4. When you make a mistake, do you comfort or complain first?

When you make a mistake, it must be the time when you feel the most wronged and the saddest. If he knows how to pity and love you, he will hold you in his arms, and then comfort you gently. When you are as quiet and well-behaved as a kitten, he will tell you where you are wrong. If he just complains about you without asking why, and questions you, then you are definitely not the priority in his heart.

5. Does he take the initiative to talk to you about his family and household affairs?

It is a man's nature to be strong, but no matter how strong a man is, he will have his weak side in front of the woman he loves the most. If he is always secretive about his family and family affairs in front of you and tries to avoid them, then he does not really love you, or at least, he does not love you deeply enough. If he tells you about his family and family affairs without reservation and even talks to you about his pets with interest, then he has already regarded you as a member of his future family.

6. Should you make excuses for your bad habits or correct them?

Men have some shortcomings and faults that women cannot tolerate, such as smoking. If he does not smoke in front of you or smokes less when you complain and object to his smoking, then you mean a lot to him. If he does not take your words seriously and even comes up with a lot of excuses, then he is definitely not the one who loves you the most, because he not only does not take care of his own body, but also does not care about you, his dear lover who is exposed to secondhand smoke.

7. Will they take the initiative to introduce you to their friends?

The person who loves you definitely hopes that you can integrate into his circle instead of being afraid that you will be snatched away by someone else. He also hopes that you can be recognized and praised by his friends. If he seems very passive about all this and only reluctantly agrees to let you attend certain gatherings after you complain bitterly, then you have not filled his heart enough, because he can forget about you when he is happy with others.