What should I do if I have nothing to talk about with my girlfriend?

After finding a boyfriend, girls hope that their boyfriend is humorous and considerate, so that they can not only tolerate themselves, but also communicate more conveniently. However, many boys are relatively dull. Although they care about their girlfriends, they always fail to express it, and they don’t know what to talk about when chatting with their girlfriends. So, what should I do if I have nothing to talk about with my girlfriend?

Many boys don't know how to chat with their girlfriends, so every time they chat with their girlfriends, it is awkward and boring. This will not only destroy the relationship between the two, but also lead to a breakup. So what should we do when our girlfriends have nothing to talk about?

1. What topics are good to talk about with your girlfriend?

When two people are together, you need to relax yourself. In fact, chatting with girls is not as difficult as you think. The topics of chatting with girls are not as complicated as you think. The more you try to find topics, the more nervous you will be. The more you don’t want to make the conversation awkward, the less you know what to say. Just let it go. I think you have been together for a short time. In fact, she is the same as you. She can understand you. When you get to know each other better, you will have a lot of speculative topics. There is no need to rush now. Just do what you should do and say whatever comes to your mind. Deliberate thinking will not produce any results.

2. Say whatever comes to mind

Some people say that if you prepare a full list of topics for chatting with girls, you can save yourself a lot of time. In fact, you don’t need to think about what topics to chat with! Just say whatever comes to your mind. Just relax a little, face it calmly, say whatever comes to your mind, and finally you will find that you are a person who is also good at chatting with girls.

3. Chat about your interests

See what your girlfriend likes and what interests she has. You two are not very familiar with each other, and it is the early stage of love? Haha, if it is the early stage of love, it is very normal. As a man, you should take the initiative to talk to her more.

4. Tell jokes and happy things

You can talk about your happy things today and in the past. This way she will think you are more humorous. Also, care about her. Never ignore her. Even if you like her, she will think you don't like her. If you have been together for a long time and you still have no topics to chat, then... I think time is running out!

5. Just being with her is a good thing.

It seems that your quiet girlfriend doesn't need you to talk to her all the time. But if you are afraid that she will be bored, you can pay more attention to telling jokes. There are many online, and you can find all kinds of jokes. You can also pay attention to her hobbies. Music, movies, books, travel... You can even talk about cooking. Talk to her about your childhood, smart things and stupid things, and you will feel very intimate.

Quiet girls will like it. It feels very family-friendly. You can chat about fashion so that she won't think you are backward and boring... In fact, if she loves you, these worries are unnecessary. When you really have nothing to say, it is very convenient to put on headphones and listen to the same song with her. That's it. I'm not an expert, just a few suggestions.