Immature men's love psychology

Everyone is constantly growing and improving, but some people do not mature mentally as they age. Maturity has a lot to do with personal experience. Many people become very mature in their teens, which is related to their daily experiences. So maturity comes more from experience. Without polishing and experience, one will naturally be immature mentally. Immature men will also be affected in love.

1. Clean and neat Mature men respect their appearance. They keep the most suitable hairstyle for themselves, have a clean chin without beard stubble, a non-greasy face, and do not grow long nails. Clothes do not have to be branded, but they are neat and generous, and will not dress wrinkled like a courier. They will never wear black leather shoes with white socks, or wear a suit to travel.

2. Respect the old and love the young. Mature men are compassionate, have a sense of social responsibility, and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. They will give up their seats to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to disaster-stricken areas, help out-of-school children, and donate blood on a voluntary basis... They may not do all of these things, but they will never do nothing.

3. Have hobbies. Mature men don’t just know how to work. They know how to use hobbies to balance their body and mind, so they can balance work and leisure time, and this also makes them interesting.

4. Value Promises A mature man will never go back on his word. He takes every promise he makes very seriously. Before making a promise, he will carefully consider whether he can really fulfill it. If he cannot fulfill it, he will never say it. He will always keep his word. Every word he says makes you feel assured and trustworthy. A man who talks nonsense, makes empty promises, and is slow to act is not mature.

5. Be broad-minded. Mature men are not petty, do not seek small gains, do not care about small losses, and do not complain about this and that. Their eyes are never caught by trivial matters. For small quarrels in the family, they are often the "angels who turn back first."

6. Not self-centered Mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at thinking from other people's perspectives, and will consider problems from other people's perspectives. They don't force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. Men who always say "I do this and that" are typical little emperors who haven't grown up yet.

—You must know how to give first

The first sign of an immature person is that he wants rewards immediately.

Only if you sow in spring can you harvest in autumn. Many people want to get a return immediately after they put in a little effort in doing anything. Just like doing business, if you don’t achieve any results at the beginning, you will think about giving up. Some people give up after one month, some give up after three months, some give up after half a year, and some give up after a year... This is a habit of typical losers. So you must have vision and look further, because vision is used to see the future!

For those who have the habit of giving up in life, there is a sentence that must be given to you: "Successful people never give up, and those who give up never succeed." Poor people have two very typical mentalities: one, always saying "no" to opportunities; two, always wanting to "get rich overnight."

We must know how to give, because we give in pursuit of our dreams. People live for hope and dreams. If a person has no dreams and no pursuits, then his life will be meaningless!

It's like a very accurate fortune teller who tells you your whole life, including when you will graduate, when you will work, when you will get married, when you will have children, what you will be like at 40, 50, what your children will be like in the future, and when you will die. Is there any meaning in your life again? Is there no meaning at all? Human beings live for hope and dreams.

So, in life, if you want to get something, you have to pay for it first. If you want to get time, you have to pay for time first. If you want to get money, you have to pay for money first. If you want to get hobbies, you have to sacrifice hobbies first. If you want to spend more time with your family, you have to spend less time with them first.

However, one thing is clear: your efforts in this project will be rewarded double. Just like a seed, after you plant it, and then water it, fertilize it, weed it, and kill insects, will you get a return of dozens or even hundreds of times?

You must know how to give, and don't be so eager for quick success and instant benefits, wanting rewards immediately. There is no free lunch in the world, and it is impossible to succeed easily.