What to do if you can't ejaculate the first time

Sexual intercourse refers to the process of sexual intercourse in which the male genitals enter the female body, and the sexual organs stimulate excitement and ejaculation. Sperm is transported through sexual intercourse, and fertilization may occur when conditions are right. Because of lack of experience, some problems may be encountered during the first sexual intercourse. Before proceeding, you should properly understand and learn about this process. What should men do if they cannot complete ejaculation during their first sexual intercourse?

The most basic thing is to do it a few times, and don't lose confidence in yourself because the first few times are short. First of all, you must have confidence in yourself (it's normal to have a short time in the first few times, it doesn't matter). It's best to take a hot shower before making love, and wash your penis with warm water (the temperature in the vagina is also hot). After insertion, don't move up and down violently, and move slowly (you must learn self-control). When you feel that you are about to ejaculate, (this is the key) don't move, pause for a few minutes, just insert it in the vagina and don't move, communicate with your partner for a while, and wait until the pleasure is over, then slowly thrust in and out. At this time, it's best to talk to the woman about something unrelated to sex to relieve the coming of pleasure, and repeat it over and over again. It will help you build up a high level of confidence. Then, when you ask a woman whether she has reached orgasm, most women will ejaculate like men when they reach orgasm. If a woman has not reached orgasm, you can thrust slowly and gently for a while. When she feels pleasure, thrust hard and quickly. Your ejaculation will be the most wonderful experience for her. If you develop this habit over time, you will also be able to prolong the time.

Maybe you didn't learn hygienic habits well. You may have found the wrong place, maybe in the urethra, not in the vagina. This is the first time for both of you. Look up the anatomical atlas online to distinguish the vagina from the urethra. Also, increase foreplay and make both of you feel the desire, so that it will be smooth and painless.

Asexuality usually refers to the inability to reach orgasm and obtain sexual pleasure, or ejaculate semen, even though the penis can have normal erection and sexual intercourse; or the inability to ejaculate semen in vagina, even though semen can be ejaculated under other circumstances. Both are collectively referred to as anejaculation.

The causes are mostly psychological factors, excessive masturbation, insufficient sexual excitement, urinary tract infection, neurological or endocrine diseases, etc. However, if you cannot ejaculate during sex but can reach orgasm and ejaculate during masturbation, it is generally considered to be caused by psychological factors or insufficient sexual excitement during sex. It is specifically recommended to go to the hospital for a clear diagnosis and decide whether medication is needed based on the specific situation.