Men don't want to have sex

Men in their teens and twenties are the most eager and demanding period for sex. As they age, men's interest in sex will gradually decrease. Many married couples often face the problem of sexual disharmony, which is also determined by the roles played by men and women in sex. Men are often the more tired party. So, what causes men to not want to have sex?

1. He is gay;

2. He has a lover outside; or he has no lover but has a one-night stand, or visits prostitutes, or he has no interest in you anymore;

3. Decreased sexual function.

Regarding the first situation: you have no way to change his sexual orientation. What you need to do depends on your own situation. If you put family first, you can only maintain this sexless marriage, and the cost to women will be great.

Some women naively think that they are better than another man, or that they can change. In fact, they are wrong. In the eyes of a gay man, men are far more attractive than women. The sexual orientation of homosexuals cannot be changed in a lifetime. No external force can do it.

In addition, most men find it difficult to resist the temptation of the outside world. Most men's hearts cannot stay on only one woman. They have a sense of responsibility for their family, but this cannot stop their restless hearts for sexual attraction. "Lustful and bold" is actually the best picture. Many women cannot understand why their husbands, who are usually honest, powerful, noble and elegant, would do something in the dirty "henhouse". This is all based on sexual attraction.

For the third case: I won't talk about the medical reasoning. If he is under 50 years old, try not to take medicine. Let him exercise more, do some gymnastics to enhance his function, and eat a diet that is not too vegetarian. What men need to enhance their function is meat. If he is over 50, it depends on the individual. If there is no other way, he can only take medicine.

What to do? The general principle is:

Let him feel the intense pleasure of sex with you, so that he won't have other ideas. Many husbands go out and have affairs with others because they no longer feel pleasure in sex with their wives.

1. Don't let him see your naked body. Tight underwear will produce sexual impulses.

2. The color should be soft, pink can stimulate sexual desire.

3. Don’t ask for it proactively. Men won’t cherish things that are easily obtained. But never reject a man’s initiative.

4. When having sex with a man, you should try to give him the greatest pleasure. This is the most important point. Afterwards, the man will never forget it and may want to reminisce several times a day. Therefore, some necessary sexual skills should be learned according to the needs of your husband.

5. Be more proactive when having sex with your husband (this is different from the above proactive), such as grabbing his key parts, helping him feel pleasure, and letting go of your posture like a prostitute (between a couple, don't be afraid).

6. Pay attention to your clothes and dressing to make him feel bright and the impulse will come.

7. Women with big breasts and thin waists are always popular with men.

8. During sex, you should show sounds and movements to show that you enjoy the pleasure. Men like to see you like this. It gives them a sense of conquest and will give them a stronger erection.

If you do the above, he will definitely want to have sex with you every day. But can you bear it if you do it every day? Change it to every week, at a different time, with different clothing styles and in a different environment.