What are the signs that a man is having an affair?

Having a perfect love should be the expectation of many people, but many men lack self-control and often cannot bear the test of the "seven-year itch" and choose to rebel against women. In fact, once a man changes his heart, there will be signs in everything he does. So let me talk about the symptoms after a man changes his heart. If you have the following three points, you must be alert!

First: Change in mentality

If a man is very attentive to you in the early stages of dating or marriage, and is almost caring, then there is no doubt that you are very important to him at this stage. But as time goes by, you find that he loses his attentiveness to you, and even picks on you for no reason over trivial matters. After ruling out the possibility that he is unhappy at work, it is likely that he has fallen in love with someone else.

If he changes his mind and falls in love with another girl, his attitude towards you will undoubtedly change greatly, because there are only a handful of boys who can properly juggle between two girls without being discovered by them. Most boys are lazy and can only take care of the experience of one girl. If he takes good care of others outside, then the one who suffers at home will like you very much.

Second: I got home very late

This is a very significant performance. I believe that even if your husband finds a job that requires him to work overtime frequently, the boss will not see him working overtime six days a week after he has a wife, right? If you really need to work overtime with such high resilience, then for the sake of your husband's health, it would be better to find another way out.

Many female friends who have experienced marital infidelity have mentioned that their husbands rarely come home after they cheated on them. Therefore, sisters, don’t just believe the lies that men often say about working overtime. If you really don’t believe that your man will betray you, it’s very simple. Just find an opportunity to communicate with their leaders, right?

Third: He doesn’t want you to touch his phone

If a man has really cheated on his wife, he will be very nervous about his phone. If he didn't care about how you checked his position before, but now he gets nervous when he sees you holding his phone, there must be a problem.

If the target of his affair unexpectedly sends them a flirtatious message while you are holding his phone, wouldn't that give him away? Although couples should trust each other and everyone has different opinions on checking phones, is it necessary to worry so much if you are mentally clear?

Finally, I hope that all female friends can make a prudent decision after realizing that their husbands have cheated. They don’t necessarily have to embark on the path of separation. If he can sincerely change, it is okay to give them another chance.