What to do if you can't hold back ejaculation

In the life of a couple, a good sex life experience is an important condition for regulating the relationship between the couple. A good sex life has great benefits for both the couple physically and mentally. Sufficient time for sex has a great relationship with sexual satisfaction. However, some men always can't help ejaculating during sex. In fact, can't help ejaculating and premature ejaculation have a lot to do with it. So what should you do if you can't help ejaculating?

1. Psychological treatment

The couple needs to agree. They should be informed that premature ejaculation is a common problem. They need to understand the necessity and possibility of rebuilding the conditioned reflex of ejaculation, eliminate the patient's abnormal psychology such as anxiety, uneasiness, and guilt, and build confidence in curing the disease. As long as both parties cooperate in the treatment, it can still be cured.

2. Behavioral method guidance

The basic treatment method of sexual concentration training aims to teach patients to experience and enjoy sexual pleasure and overcome psychological barriers through tactile stimulation such as hugging, caressing, and massage. You can also pull the scrotum and testicles downward before reaching orgasm, or use the thumb and index finger to press and squeeze the glans to reduce sexual excitement, and the erection hardness can also be reduced by 10% to 25%. After long-term training, sexual intercourse is performed in the woman-on-top position, and the training is still repeated in the form of twitching-stopping-twitching again, gradually improving the ejaculation stimulation threshold, so that ejaculation can be achieved only after a more satisfactory artificial control.

3. Oral medication

At present, the main drug treatment is 5-hydroxytryptamine reuptake inhibitor. The one that has been launched in China is dapacitin hydrochloride, also known as Priligy. 30 mg, taken orally 3 hours before sexual intercourse, it mainly prolongs the latent period of ejaculation. It has certain side effects and indications, and must be taken under the guidance of a doctor. It is relatively expensive. Other similar drugs include paroxetine, etc., which should all be used under the guidance of a doctor.

4. Topical medication

It is mainly a local anesthetic that can be applied to the glans penis before sexual intercourse to delay the latent period of ejaculation through the local anesthetic effect.