How to treat premature ejaculation during sex

How to treat premature ejaculation during sexual intercourse? There are various definitions of premature ejaculation, which means that ejaculation occurs very quickly during sexual intercourse, and some people cannot have sexual intercourse at all. In order to delay the dangerous period of ejaculation, most patients turn their logical thinking to other aspects during sexual intercourse, such as diet, going out to play, etc., in an attempt to delay the dangerous period of ejaculation, or use condoms, drink alcohol, etc., but the actual effect is not good. On the contrary, it often causes low libido, sexual sensation obstruction, and even erectile dysfunction, which aggravates the condition.

Therefore, the treatment of premature ejaculation should be based on the cause of the disease and the appropriate treatment method should be selected.

1. Psychotherapy

The couple needs to cooperate with each other. The couple should be informed that premature ejaculation is a common problem. The couple needs to understand the necessity and possibility of restoring the male's classic conditioned reflex of ejaculation, eliminate the patient's anxiety, restlessness, guilt and other abnormal psychological states, and create confidence in curing the disease. As long as they cooperate with each other in treatment, they can still be cured.

2. Specific guidance on personal behavior

The basic treatment method of sexual concentration training aims to educate patients to feel and enjoy sexual pleasure and get rid of psychological barriers through tactile stimulation such as hugging, caressing, and massage. You can also stretch the scrotum and testicles before reaching the climax, or use the thumb and index finger to squeeze the glans penis to reduce sexual impulses, and the hardness of the penis can also be reduced by 10% to 25%. After long-term training, you can have sex with the woman on top and the man on the bottom. You can still choose to train repeatedly in the twitch-stop-twitch method to gradually increase the stimulation of the ejaculation valve, and then achieve a more satisfactory control of human factors before ejaculation.

3. Oral medication

At present, the main medication for treatment is 5-5-hydroxytryptamine reabsorption retarder. The one sold in China is dapacitin hydrochloride, which is called Priligy. 30mg, taken orally 3 hours before sex, it mainly delays the dangerous period of ejaculation. It has certain side effects and indications, and must be taken under the specific guidance of a doctor. It is more expensive. Other similar drugs include paroxetine, etc., which should be used under the specific guidance of a doctor.

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4. Some medications

The key is local anesthetics, which can be applied to the glans penis before sexual intercourse to reduce the male's ejaculation crisis period through the efficacy of local anesthesia.

5. Penile corpus cavernosum drug injection therapy

Although premature ejaculation still exists in this method, the man's penis can maintain erection for a certain period of time after ejaculation, which may be helpful in increasing the sexual desire of immediate family members.

Causes of Premature Ejaculation

According to traditional Chinese medicine, the male genitals are the gateway to the kidneys through the seminal vesicles, and belong to the foot-Jueyin liver meridian. The physiological function of male ejaculation is carried out under the mutual restraint and harmony of the liver's descending and the kidney's sealing. During sexual intercourse, the foot-Jueyin liver meridian, based on the sensory stimulation of the male genitals, continuously enhances the descending function of the liver fire until the restraint of the kidney's essence sealing is enhanced to produce male ejaculation. If the basin is compared to the kidney function and the water in the bucket is compared to the essence, the basin can be filled without leaking, indicating that the wood board is compact and solid, and once we remove one of the wood boards, the water inside will leak out immediately. The same principle applies. When the kidney function is healthy and the kidney qi is abundant, the essence gate is solid and the kidney storage is strong. When the kidney function is deficient and the sealing function of the kidney function is unbalanced, the Yang Qi in the kidney is deficient and cannot retain semen at night, and the semen gate is not solid, which of course causes premature ejaculation.

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On the surface, too much work pressure, tension, anxiety, frequent sex, and excessive masturbation can also cause premature ejaculation. From my personal medical experience, this group has a common characteristic, which is that the Yin is weak and the fire is strong, that is, the spleen and kidney are weak. For example, too much work pressure will inevitably lead to depression, and depression will damage the liver. The liver and kidney have the same origin, so of course it will affect the kidney function. Secondly, it is normal for premature ejaculation to be caused by tension and anxiety during the first sexual life, but when the sexual experience is rich, the same premature ejaculation as the classic conditioned reflex still occurs. This is because there is a problem with the sealing function of the kidney function. Also, men who have frequent sex, masturbate a lot, and visit adult websites frequently have their kidneys in an excited state, which can easily lead to kidney qi depletion, kidney failure, loose sperm, and premature ejaculation. Therefore, these groups are all potential patients of premature ejaculation. If they are not restrained, the probability of suffering from premature ejaculation is almost 100%!

Finally, let me correct a saying. For a long time, people have been deceived into thinking that excessive foreskin can cause premature ejaculation. In fact, the experiment of Oxford University in the United Kingdom proved that the rate of phimosis of the glans penis of men in cultivation reached 78%, and the threshold of sexual nerve sensitivity of the group with excessive foreskin was roughly the same as that of the group without excessive foreskin. Therefore, excessive foreskin will not cause premature ejaculation. Patients with excessive foreskin must turn up their foreskin every time they urinate, and the glans penis of patients with excessive foreskin never has the opportunity to be exposed, so it is too sensitive and ejaculates at the first touch. Therefore, premature ejaculation has nothing to do with excessive foreskin, but excessive foreskin can cause premature ejaculation.