How to correctly guide boys to fall in love early

In modern society, many people have experienced premature love. Moreover, premature love not only affects our academic performance, but also, to a certain extent, affects our physical and mental health. Moreover, precocious puberty is now emerging around us. Therefore, what worries many parents is premature love. Let us now learn how to guide boys in premature love!

How to deal with children's premature love correctly:

1. First of all, we need to make it clear that children enter puberty at the age of 13. It is normal for them to have feelings for the opposite sex during this period. If they don’t, then there is a problem. There was a father who was a military officer who strictly prohibited his son from interacting with the opposite sex during his puberty. As a result, his son still couldn’t fall in love when he was 32 years old, and his face would blush when he saw a girl.

2. Secondly, confirm whether the child is really in love or just has a crush on the opposite sex. In most cases, the child only has a vague crush on the other party; if they are really in love, you should first be happy: your child is very charming and can attract people so early, and then teach the child how to get along with the opposite sex. In most cases, the love between children is relatively naive. If they are really "in love", they will often quickly discover the shortcomings of the other party, and at this time they will take the initiative to "break up".

3. Then tactfully express your expectations: no matter what, don't fall behind in learning, and your comprehensive qualities will continue to develop. And show your trust in your child, believing that he (she) will handle the relationship between love and study well. This trust will make children grateful to you instead of resentful; and often prompt them to start thinking like an "adult".

4. Give the child some time. If, at the end of the time, he (she) is still addicted to love and it affects his (her) grades, you must take certain measures: have a serious communication with him (her) to let him (her) understand what true and mature love is: that is, being responsible to each other, is for the purpose of marriage, and requires certain abilities and a certain foundation, etc.

5. You should naturally and seriously reach an agreement with your child: no matter how deep the relationship is, sexual behavior is not allowed. You can also take the opportunity to conduct a one-time education to let him (her) understand that impulsiveness has a price to pay.

6. Parents should be good at self-relaxation and self-regulation, and handle the relationship between work and leisure well. They should be in a good mood first, so as to avoid affecting their children as much as possible and stay sober and calm when educating their children. Leading by example often has a better effect than empty preaching.