Analysis of the deep reasons for men's cold violence

As the saying goes, couples are not afraid of quarrels, but they are afraid of being speechless. In family life, many men like to treat their partners in a cold and violent way, that is, no matter what their partners do, men remain silent, giving people a feeling of indifference and contempt. Over time, women will feel particularly depressed and unable to vent. So, what is the deep reason for men's cold violence? Let's analyze the psychological reasons for men's cold violence.

The deep reasons behind men's cold violence

On the one hand, men prefer silence, do not like to make noise when encountering problems, and prefer to solve problems alone. This is due to the personality of some men. This habit of men is related to the social role definition of men or men's instincts. When encountering pressure and frustration, men like to fall into their own inner world, face and resolve it alone, while women, when encountering problems, like to find someone to confide in, talk it out, or quarrel, and then perhaps resolve the emotions. This essential difference between men and women can easily make women think that men's attitude when facing problems is a kind of cold violence.

The second possible reason is that the man has no feelings for the woman. When a man doesn't like a person, he won't actively show his affection. More often, if a man uses cold violence against a woman, it means that the man doesn't like the woman. There is no emotion, no love, so he doesn't care about the woman's feelings, and always has a cold attitude. It seems that it has nothing to do with you to do whatever you want. He doesn't flatter you, nor does he belittle you. He always has that indifferent attitude. If a woman can bear it, you can bear it. If you can't bear it, you can choose to let go. Anyway, he doesn't care and can accept anything.

The second possible reason is that the man has no feelings for the woman. When a man doesn't like a person, he won't actively show his affection. More often, if a man uses cold violence against a woman, it means that the man doesn't like the woman. There is no emotion, no love, so he doesn't care about the woman's feelings. He always has a cold attitude, as if it has nothing to do with you. He doesn't flatter you, nor does he belittle you. He always has that indifferent attitude. If the woman can bear it, you can bear it. If you can't bear it, you can choose to let go. Anyway, he doesn't care and can accept anything.

Fourth, there is another possible reason, which is that the man has fallen in love with someone else and his heart has drifted away. The easiest mistake a man makes is cheating. If it is just physical cheating, it probably won't cause a man to use cold violence. This kind of cheating is often accompanied by emotions. The result of sex and emotions drifting away together is that men are very likely to use cold violence against the women they are dating. First, it will be physical indifference, and then it will be spiritual alienation.