The disease of single men after being single for a long time

When the Chinese New Year comes, are your family members asking you about your marriage? Many single people really can't cope with it. If a person is single for a long time, some strange phenomena will appear. Did you know that being single for a long time will also make you sick?

1. Like obscene talk

If groups of men get together, besides drinking a little wine, they talk about women, especially when a few close friends are together, the content of the conversation is even more obscene. Although we think this is just a normal sexual psychological reaction of men, we still define men as obscene and shameless, even if they do this just to kill time, relax tense nerves, and enhance the harmonious atmosphere of idle chat, or there are nice girls nearby.

The purpose of doing this is to attract the attention of women and see how they react when they hear these words. But to us, it still sounds vulgar.

2. Likes to touch women

Just like the woman in Chekhov's "The Cherry Orchard" said: "If I let you kiss my hand, you will definitely kiss my shoulder and my forehead next."

Because men's psychological characteristics determine that men like to touch women, they are born with a strong "desire to touch women."

Especially men who are in love, they especially hope to touch women, because they think this is a way to make both parties more intimate, and at the same time they also want to confirm the extent of the love between you.

In fact, physiologically and psychologically, they just want to achieve their "ultimate goal". From the perspective of us women, their love for touching women just shows their "impatient" mentality, which makes us feel disgusted.

3. Like to see naked women

Men are animals who think with their lower body. When they see naked women, their wolf nature will be aroused. The more a woman covers her private parts, the stronger his psychological stimulation will be. Their "rich" imagination arouses their deep impulses.

Such men are extremely dangerous. When we are with them, we have to be on guard all the time, pay attention to our appearance, and doubt their purpose in dating us. Men's desire for exclusivity determines that they "like to hear about women's past."

4. Like to hear about women’s past

Men's desire for exclusivity determines that they like to hear about women's past, especially when they want to marry this woman. They want to own the woman's future and past, and want to possess her past and present lives. Men's desire for exclusivity can easily make them want to control, and they may also care about your present because of your past.

If a boy in his twenties makes a woman feel insecure because of his immaturity, then a single man in his forties is like an old house that has been idle for too long - dim lights, messy furnishings, tangled spider webs and beams that have been in disrepair for a long time, which will make women involuntarily feel the fear of being trapped in a "black hole". If you meet a man who has been single for more than a year, then you may have to be careful, he will never be as attractive as he looks.