How to be successful in love, love tutorial for boys

Love is actually a science. Some schools even offer a course called "love psychology". This shows that love is not just about two people liking each other. Therefore, when in love, boys need to know some skills to keep the love fresh and the feelings between the two people, so as to avoid problems such as burnout.

1: When you have developed feelings for him/her and realize that the other person also has this feeling, you should muster up the courage as soon as possible and express your feelings to the other person boldly and skillfully. This is the key to a relationship. Some young men and women have already fallen in love with each other, but because they have not publicly expressed their feelings for a long time, the other party has long been convinced of your true feelings. Once something unexpected happens, they will regret it for the rest of their lives. Although it is often said that actions speak louder than words, words are often more expressive and direct than actions. We should express our love to our lovers from time to time. A simple sentence of "I love you" or "You are everything to me" is very useful. It can make lovers feel cared for, loved, and safe in love.

1: Learn to speak humorously, which will greatly help to elevate your relationship. When lovers are talking to each other, a humorous and witty remark suddenly pops up, and you will often find him/her particularly lovable and approachable. In the future, even if there are conflicts, you will often be reluctant to leave him/her because he/she once said a witty remark that made you laugh. This is the power of humor.

1: Oppose extravagance in love. Avoid being stingy. Especially in the initial stage of dating, both parties should pay attention to being dignified and generous. Simplicity and thriftiness are undoubtedly virtues, but few girls or boys will like a person of the opposite sex who wears outdated clothes at the beginning. Our unreasonable expectations of each other are likely to lead to the failure of love. Unless we marry a robot, we cannot demand perfection from each other. People always have weaknesses and shortcomings, which are personality, not problems. We must learn to understand and accept each other's habits. A normal person will inevitably have some habits. We all know that our own weaknesses often make us feel uneasy, so we must not blame our lover's shortcomings, nor deliberately expose our lover's shortcomings.

1: No matter how busy you are, make sure you spend one night a week or two together. You can create new memories, share stories, or just spend time together and enjoy each other's company.

1: Being upright and honest is the right thing to do when you are in love. However, you cannot mechanically understand the meaning of "integrity and honesty" because love is proportional to understanding. The deeper the love, the more you fully understand the other person. Therefore, when the foundation is not solid enough, it is not advisable to disclose your shortcomings and insignificant deficiencies to your sweetheart too early. Those who introduce their advantages one, two, three, and disadvantages one, two, three at the beginning of love rarely fail.

1: Some young people, out of true love, often can't help but praise their loved ones in person for their beauty, virtue or many other advantages, but they are too embarrassed to even mention their loved ones' names behind their backs. Smart people are often the opposite of this. They don't say many compliments in person, but in front of their loved ones' relatives and friends, they often "casually" and sincerely compliment their loved ones (don't worry about no one passing on the message). This method of conveying your inner thoughts through a third party is much more effective than praising the person in person. We should often tell our lovers what we like most about him (her) - what we admire about him (her), what makes us proud of him (her), and what advantages we think he (she) has. Let the other person know that our appreciation for him or her is not just a matter of the early stages of a relationship, but will last throughout our lives. We must continue to encourage and support each other. Only in this way can we help him or her realize his or her potential.

1: In life, when lovers encounter the sad things of losing a job or losing a loved one, we all know how to comfort and encourage each other. Similarly, when lovers are upset about quarrels with colleagues, work is not going well, or they can't remember where they put their checks, we should know how to support and comfort them. Of course, the premise is that we can't just accept it and let them beat and scold us. But when a quarrel occurs, we should still be thick-skinned, stay calm and rational, listen to what they are upset about first, try to understand them as much as possible, and at least comfort them.

1: Many people think that the more contact they have, the deeper their feelings will be, so they go on dates frequently and always break up at midnight. In fact, from a psychological perspective, moderate separation can deepen the love between two people. "A short separation is worse than a newly married couple" is the truth. Young people may wish to try it, arrange fewer dates, often "retreat at the height of the conversation", and resolutely leave when it is hard to part. In this way, you will definitely leave the other person with deep attachment and lasting aftertaste.

"All happy marriages are alike, but every unhappy marriage is unhappy in its own way." The above is the secret to ensuring a successful love relationship. If you follow the above secret to a successful love relationship, I believe everyone can succeed in love.