How to save your marriage, 7 steps to save your marriage

Marriage is not just about the sweet words and vows of love, but also about the daily necessities and family matters of life. If you don't manage your marriage carefully, it will easily fall into crisis. What should you do when your marriage falls into crisis? How can you save a marriage?

1: If you don't tell your partner what's bothering you, don't expect to improve your relationship. Express your needs and concerns honestly without using a threatening or accusatory tone, so your partner won't close down. Use "I" speech instead of "you" speech. Say "I'm bothered" instead of "You're bothering me."

1: Plan activities and outings to spend "fun time" with your significant other, which can rekindle the romance and remind you why you fell in love in the first place. If your marriage is in big trouble, consider taking a second honeymoon.

1: When your significant other is talking, listen to him/her without thinking about your next rebuttal. If you can understand what motivates him/her to act this way, you may be able to see him/her in a new, emotional light.

1: If your marriage has suffered a serious blow, such as infidelity, seek professional advice.

1: Forgive your significant other for his or her mistakes. Forgiveness is the best way to free yourself from problems and ensure long-term happiness.

1: Be loving to your significant other, even if you don't have any particular problems to solve. Be affectionate and sympathetic when he or she talks about other problems in life.

1: Promise your significant other to change. If you promise to spend less time playing golf or nagging less, stick to it.

Even if you are bored with each other all day long, you won't feel bored. Once you enter into marriage, the love between two people becomes the daily necessities of a family, and there are so many confusing trivialities mixed in. The cognition and personality of both men and women will change. Some changes may be very minor, but they cannot be ignored. If you ignore them, your marriage will inevitably be in trouble.