The three most obvious signs of lack of confidence are:

In daily work and study, confident people tend to be more successful, while people tend to be unconfident. So, what are the manifestations of unconfidence?

Not listening to others carefully

For example, people who are not confident in their work must listen carefully to those who are knowledgeable and experienced. However, Mr. Uenishi pointed out that only people who are not confident tend not to listen to others. The reason is that they don't have time to listen to others, don't want others to think that they are not confident, etc. Listening carefully to others can gain very important information. As the first step to cultivating confidence, start by listening to others.

Too much boasting about one's own greatness

When facing people around them, some people often brag about how "capable" they are. This is also a manifestation of lack of self-confidence. People who are truly confident will not act arrogantly or have prejudices against others. Even if such people see that others are more capable than themselves, they will clearly realize that others are others and they are themselves.

Follow the crowd

Listening to others and changing your own decisions easily are the characteristics of people who lack self-confidence. They always make excuses that they are influenced by others to do something. If you do this, you will not have a good life. If you realize that you are such a person, then make it a habit to ask yourself what you really want to do.