My wife refuses to have a baby, and no matter how much I push her, it’s useless? Finding the reason is the key

Young people in modern society are more educated, and the idea that "the three unfilial acts are the greatest of which is not having children" has disappeared from many people's minds, especially many female friends who advocate DINK and do not want children. In fact, every woman has maternal instincts and wants to be a mother. If your wife does not want to have children, you must understand the reason.

Reasons why women don't want to have children

1. First of all, stretch marks are very deadly for girls who love beauty. At least you can't wear the popular nipple-revealing clothes now, and you can only wear one-piece swimsuits to cover up more.

2. After breastfeeding, women face sagging breasts and a distorted figure, which is a big blow to many people. At least I am a person who cares about my figure very much, but now I can't bear to look at it. Although I have lost weight, my breast shape is a pain.

3. When you are pregnant, your skin is constantly stretched and it will itch and hurt, but you can't scratch it, which is very painful.

4. Giving birth was so painful. Just thinking about the heart-wrenching pain made my scalp tingle. I wished I could die. At that time, I really asked the nurse to kill me because it was in too much pain.

5. Going to the toilet after giving birth is a torture that takes several days to recover from.

6. Sweating during the confinement period is very uncomfortable.

7. Increased milk production and breast inflammation are things men cannot experience.

8. Women who give birth are more likely to develop hemorrhoids, and many suffer from rectal prolapse during childbirth.

9. My lumbar spine is damaged. I don’t know if it’s because I held the baby too much during the confinement period and mostly fed him while sitting.

10. Most natural births require episiotomy, and the stitches are very painful; the recovery period after a caesarean section is also very painful. (Let me ask, how many men can accept cutting and stitching on their genitals?)

11. Some pregnant women and postpartum women may suffer from depression or have depressive symptoms due to changes in their bodies or their personal social roles.

Women who are willing to have children for you are very great. If your wife does not want to have children, you might as well start with the reason. Only after finding the reason can you provide better psychological counseling.