Correctly understand the need to redeem a relationship. Can it be redeemed after a breakup?

Can you get back together after a breakup? Many people may have this idea of ​​getting back together after a breakup. Today, I will talk to you about some correct ways to get back together after a breakup, which may be able to help you.

1. Be ordinary friends

The other party has already had a bad impression of you after breaking up with you. If you still try to persuade the other party to change their mind by reasoning, this may make the other party feel that you think they are not wrong, which will increase their antipathy. The correct way should be to freeze the emotions first, let the other party put down their defense against you, and get along with each other like ordinary friends. Doing so can not only reduce the other party's antipathy towards you, but also pave the way for secondary attraction.

2. Reasons for breaking up

All breakups have reasons, and different breakup reasons have different coping methods. Reflect on the problems between you, find out the reasons and change them. When you change, you are one step closer to successful recovery.

3. Admit your mistakes

From the moment of breaking up, the other person has already developed a negative mentality towards you. When you have the opportunity to communicate, don't refute him/her. The more you refute, the more resistance he/she will have. At this time, you should unconditionally agree with what the other person says: "You are right, it is the right choice for you to leave me, and I did not do well enough" and so on, to establish consistency with the other person.

4. Improve Yourself

During the cold period of your relationship, you need to learn to improve yourself, whether it is your appearance, dressing, or inner life structure. Because the other party has completely denied you now, it shows that there is something wrong with you. When you transform one day, you will face this world and him/her with confidence. Life is a process of continuous learning and change. Improving yourself is not only to win back the other party, but also to win back yourself.

In the process of recovery, success or failure depends on whether you use the correct recovery method.