Why do people say that sex is the most important thing for men?

How important is sex to men?

Men have sex when they are stressed, men have sex when they are depressed, men use sex to communicate with women, use sex to vent... Is sex everything for men? If you have a girlfriend, you must quickly turn her down and have sex? Can't there be other ways to communicate? Isn't it better to start after marriage? Can't you control your desires?

Men are always craving new women.

But the emptiness they feel after sex without emotions is actually the same as the emptiness they feel after masturbating to AV. Because for humans, sex is more than just sex, it is a language, a bridge, a place from loneliness to intimacy, and a melting pot for building mutual belonging. If you experience true acceptance during sex - I like her, and she likes me, then the emptiness after ejaculation will not appear, but will be replaced by a warm and full feeling. You will want to hold her to sleep, want to protect her, or want to possess her more; on the contrary, after casually buying prostitution or some reluctant hookups, you will feel empty and just want to leave, just like turning off the AV movie immediately after masturbating, because it is just masturbating with someone else's body.

Society's definition of masculinity.

It also makes men seek something other than sex. The social gender roles of men tell us that men are strong, do not shed tears easily, do not need to confide in someone, can digest things by themselves, and intimate relationships are unnecessary for them.

Men are not only isolated from each other, they are actually isolated from women. The only way to get close to each other physically and mentally is through sex. Sensitive men can easily perceive that when they make love, they have a sense of security, a sense of communication with others, and a sense of integration with others. Men meet all their needs for intimacy, care and contact through sex. Because we have been deprived of the possibility of satisfying these needs through emotions.