Why is it hard for a while and then becomes soft?

We all know that the male penis is the symbol of masculinity. Many men hope that they are very capable in sexual life and are afraid that their significant other will ridicule them for not being good enough. If a man is not good enough, it is really the best way to slap him in the face. So why does it become soft after being hard for a while?

Why does it become soft after being hard for a while? It is actually due to premature ejaculation.

Modern science believes that impotence is related to multifunctional and organic factors:

1. Multifunctional elements

Mainly mental and psychological disorders. There are many aspects as follows:

Blood pressure, self-awareness, growth and development are affected

The mentality of sexual needs is the accumulation of cultural characteristics, family influences, personal feelings and the sexual perceptions of immediate family members. The influence of ethnic religion, parents' consciousness, sex-related books and sexual abuse incidents also form a variety of sexual experiences: such as negative attitudes towards sexual needs at home; poor sexual identity training in childhood; scolding for touching sexual organs; lack of correct treatment of married life; little knowledge of the two sexes; unsuccessful first sexual life, psychological trauma, etc.

Abnormal blood cardiac status

Such as inferiority complex, lack of confidence; worry about married life, worry about the size of the penis being unsuitable; worry about unsuccessful sex, pregnancy and contracting sexually transmitted diseases; depression or irritability, etc.

Supplement for the disharmony between husband and wife

Disharmony between husband and wife may occur due to lack of trust between husband and wife, suspicion of wife having an affair, quarrels due to family disputes, lack of attraction to husband, gynecological disease or urethral infection and abstention from sex, etc. Disharmony between husband and wife may occur due to lack of close relationship between immediate family members, family discord, or even mutual dislike. This will inevitably lead to abnormality in the couple's life. During sexual activities, one or both parties may not cooperate closely with the other, which will damage the harmony of the couple's life and even prevent the smooth development of sex. Men may not get the necessary stimulation due to women's lack of cooperation or dislike, or they may suffer from impotence due to anxiety about sexual needs.

According to the statistical analysis results of the Erectile Dysfunction Clinic in Edinburgh, UK, 47% of men think that the cause of sexual dysfunction is family discord in daily relationships, and 68% of their immediate family members also think that it is caused by family discord in daily relationships. Mehler conducted a long-term scientific study on the relationship between sexual life and impotence and found that long-term sexual life without love can cause impotence. Because sexual life cannot be carried out smoothly for a long time, the whole process of normal sexual activity cannot be carried out.

Inadequate or insufficient negative sexual excitement

Sufficient and moderate sexual excitement for a person means that he can enjoy various things such as visual effects, hallucinations, imagination, as well as concepts and emotions. The stimulation method required by a person may be related to the expression of past lovers' lovemaking or masturbation habits. Some adult men require direct and obvious touch on the genitals to arouse erection, while ordinary people can achieve the same practical effect with the help of logical thinking or imagination. Some people are accustomed to long-term masturbation, or excessive indulgence, which makes the central nervous system often in an over-excited state and eventually declines.

Full-term neurasthenia

Long-term illness and overwork can cause neurasthenia.

The influence of hose inhibition factors

Studies have found that the psychological barriers that cause impotence also include work stress, anxiety and depression, such as work, family, economic development work stress and secondary emotions. Under work, social development and family work stress, many people have physiological and emotional symptoms. The susceptibility genes to work stress and personal differences determine the severity of their symptoms. When trying to improve these symptoms, new work stress may be added.

Anxiety and depression may be a reflection of non-sexual reasons or a substance of sexual consciousness, and are generally considered to be key factors in psychological erectile dysfunction. Anxiety can be caused by confidence and understanding of the natural environment. The impact on male sexual function is often related to the fear of whether to start and maintain an erection. Fear of illness, pregnancy, intimate personal behavior, and male ejaculation has been proven to be a common inhibitory factor. Other reasons include dislike for immediate family or other women, the sense of shame caused by childhood education, and guilt for a normal sexual life.

Cartilage components

Such as premature ejaculation, no ejaculation during sexual intercourse, long-term lack of sexual pleasure, iatrogenic effects, doctors casually diagnose it as impotence, and reveal to patients the mentality that the disease cannot be cured, which aggravates their mental burden and makes them lose confidence in treatment.

The above factors increase the inhibitory effect of the cerebral cortex on sexual impulses and reduce the fluid regulation of the spinal cord nerve center, thus producing impotence.