How to treat neurogenic impotence?

Erectile dysfunction is the disease that men fear the most. It is an important part of men's psychological life. Of course, for women who have sex, the sexual function of their partner is equally important. Harmonious sexual intercourse will enhance the relationship between the two and is also an important way to maintain the family. However, after suffering from neurotic impotence, sexual function will decline, there will be problems during sexual intercourse, and the feeling will be damaged over time. So how to treat neurotic impotence?

Sexual focus training is a fast and effective psychological therapy for treating sexual dysfunction.

It is generally believed that sexual problems are purely a form of mental disorder and a manifestation of psychological conflict. Therefore, psychoanalysis is often used in treatment, but the treatment time is often as long as several months or years, and the effect is not satisfactory. Later, behavioral psychology believed that sexual dysfunction is an acquired abnormal behavior, so behavioral therapy is often used for treatment, such as aversion therapy, systematic desensitization therapy, exposure therapy, etc. Although the treatment effect is good, it is often difficult to consolidate. Sexual concentration training combines the principles of psychoanalysis and behavioral therapy, and takes various effective measures to guide patients to "focus their sexuality on the here and now, and let nature do the rest." In this way, satisfactory results can be achieved through only 2-3 weeks of intensive treatment.

The basic theory of the sex-focused training method is: Although the cause of sexual dysfunction is a combination of multiple factors, it is fundamentally caused by anxiety, especially operational anxiety caused by sexual activity failure. In sexual life, the anxiety and tension caused by the fear of failure suppress the naturalness of sexual function, and the suppression of sexual function causes sexual intercourse failure. "Anxiety-failure-anxiety", in the long run, this vicious cycle forms a wrong sexual behavior pattern, that is, sexual dysfunction. The use of sex-focused training can quickly eliminate anxiety in couples' sex life. In the process of gradually learning the correct sexual behavior pattern, the naturalness of sexual function will gradually recover, and its dysfunction will also gradually disappear.

Sexy concentration training is generally divided into the following four steps:

The first step is to achieve sexual cognition and relieve anxiety (3-5 days)

After a detailed examination and exclusion of organic lesions, the couple is introduced in detail to the anatomy, physiology and psychology of sex, with an emphasis on the characteristics of the male and female response cycles, different ways of sexual expression and how to arouse sexual excitement. In the process of explanation, pictures and certain models should be used to help them understand. At the same time, they are encouraged to discuss sexual issues in order to reach a more consistent opinion. At this stage, the couple should live separately and prohibit sexual intercourse in order to eliminate anxiety about sexual activities. At the same time, some simple relaxation training should be carried out to further eliminate anxiety and tension.

Step 2: Non-sexual physical and emotional communication (3-5 days)

After the previous step, the couple should lie together naked, kiss, hug and touch each other all over the body, but be careful not to touch the breasts and sexual organs. During these activities, you can use some intimate words to communicate and experience the skin pleasure and emotional enjoyment brought by them. It should be noted that these activities are to enhance the sensitivity of various parts of the body, not to arouse sexual desire or satisfy sexual intercourse. Although sexual excitement often occurs at this stage, you must not have sexual intercourse, and you should focus on experiencing the pleasure of the whole body. In the last 1-2 days of this step, you can start to touch the breasts, but still do not touch the sexual organs.

Step 3: Touching the sexual organs and applying masturbation techniques (2-3 days)

On the basis of continuing the previous step, both husband and wife should find the best sexual stimulation points of their own sexual organs. Generally speaking, the best sexual stimulation points for men are mostly concentrated on the frenulum of the penis rather than the glans penis, while for women, they are mostly concentrated on the clitoris and vaginal opening. However, the stimulation site, stimulation time and stimulation intensity vary from person to person. After achieving the best sexual pleasure through self-stimulation of sexual organs, you should touch each other's sexual organs. At this time, you can use "hand in hand" to make the other party's operation just right. When touching each other's sexual organs, both parties can gently put their hands together so that non-verbal sexual hints can be made during the touch to avoid diluting the pleasant feeling due to talking. The signals of non-verbal hints can be designed by yourself. For example, the hand can move from one point to another to express "I don't like it"; or the hand can be placed without moving to express "I like it this way."

At this stage, you still don't want to have sexual intercourse, but try to experience the physical and mental euphoria during the process, and gradually focus your sexual desire on your sexual organs.

Step 4: Therapeutic sexual intercourse (4-5 days)

How to treat neurotic impotence? The treatment of the disease is mainly based on sexual concentration training. This method uses the patient's psychology for treatment. Of course, the patient must be psychologically strong. When the patient himself cannot bear the pressure of the disease, the effect of psychological treatment is not good. It is recommended that the patient use medication for treatment. Of course, when treating the disease, it is also necessary to combine the severity of the patient's symptoms. When the condition is serious, the patient needs to change his treatment, and the treatment effect will be better.