Five truths to tell when dealing with a cheating man

When a man expresses love outside of marriage, he only wants to possess the woman in his heart. He will not naively think of marrying her. He thinks his wife is good. When a woman expresses love, she often flashes the scene of the two of them standing in the church in wedding dresses.

The first truth: If a married man falls in love with a woman other than his wife, it does not necessarily mean that his marriage is unhappy or that he loves the woman too much.

When a man expresses love outside of marriage, he only wants to possess the woman. He does not naively think of marrying her. He thinks his wife is good. When a woman expresses love, she often imagines the two of them standing in a church in wedding dresses. This completely different mentality constitutes a huge psychological difference between men and women when they have an extramarital affair.

After a man has experienced the novelty of marriage (about two years), he begins to dream about the opportunity to cheat.

But for him, family is a very safe, fitting and casual vest. He is struggling to find what he calls noble love in the vast sea of ​​people, but deep down, it is a series of yellow episodes.

He has a wife who is very satisfied with him and trusts him very much. This trust has spurred him to find a confidante. It cannot be said that he does not love his wife. He even has a strong sense of responsibility for his family. He will devote a lot of effort to the growth of his children. He will be at his wife's side if she suddenly gets sick one day. He is definitely a good husband and a good man in front of his family and outsiders.

The second truth: Married men who have had some success in having affairs are mostly attractive because of their wives.

The charm of mature men in them has always been appreciated by their wives, breeding pride and confidence. His eyes are filled with peace and warmth because of his wife's tenderness. He has learned how to express his feelings through his wife's teachings...

He would not go to those shabby places that are neither safe nor affordable. He would find a safe and inexpensive woman. He only needs to wear the coat of "love" to enrich his emotional world and solve sexual problems with ease.

When a man expresses love outside of marriage, he only wants to possess the woman in his heart. He will not naively think of marrying her. He thinks his wife is good. When a woman expresses love, she often flashes the scene of the two of them standing in the church in wedding dresses.

The third truth: In fact, even if he hadn’t met you, he would have fallen in love with other women at first sight.

This kind of man may hate his unhappy marriage, or he may not hate it. This seems to have nothing to do with expressing his "love" to you. He will say to this woman: I love two women most in my life, one is you and the other is my mother.

It's not that he doesn't have any feelings for this woman. He thinks about her all the time. When he's on a business trip, he'll buy her something that's slightly cheaper than the gift he gives to his wife. At home, he's often absent-minded because of you. This is exactly the feeling he wants. He hopes to have the passion and colorful life of his youth in his stable life.

Sometimes, when they are passionate, they will think about marrying you, but afterwards they will rationally reject their weak souls. Smart women will find that there are fewer and fewer stupid men who want to divorce if they have an affair.

The fourth truth: Men only want to fall in love, and they are both happy and afraid of the idea of ​​a woman outside of marriage wanting to marry him.

If you want to marry him, the man is proud that the woman really loves him, but he is afraid that he will be entangled by the woman without any regrets. The end of this kind of relationship usually starts from the moment the woman asks him to divorce and wants to marry him.

However, the cheating man did not want to leave her so quickly, so he adopted a roundabout strategy. Thus, the same promise as the man's promise to "divorce his wife in 2005" and marry Xiaoqing was born. Until the woman could not stand it anymore, she swore to leave him in anger without caring about her beauty. The problem is that most women are unwilling to admit that they love the wrong person. When the man says a gentle word and sheds a few crocodile tears, the woman easily forgets the previous scars. This goes back and forth, the man suffers from phobia, and the woman suffers from madness that she will not marry anyone but him.

When a man expresses love outside of marriage, he only wants to possess the woman in his heart. He will not naively think of marrying her. He thinks his wife is good. When a woman expresses love, she often flashes the scene of the two of them standing in the church in wedding dresses.

The fifth truth: A man who makes excuses for not getting a divorce and keeps confessing his love to you has no intention of marrying you.

If he doesn't want to marry you, he will find an excuse to break up with you. At this time, he already regrets that he has developed a deep relationship with you and exhausted himself. He is considering how to end it with you. It would be best if you can't wait and leave. Maybe you still feel sorry for him. No matter what, you must not affect his career and family.

On the night you write your farewell letter and prepare to leave, he will kneel in front of you, shedding tears and saying that his heart is broken. He will treasure you in the deepest part of his heart, and every night when music sounds, he will be so heartbroken that he almost convulses and dies.