How to confirm a relationship, a guide to successful love

When two people gradually change from strangers to familiar people, people who like each other, people who are ambiguous, and finally people who are in a relationship, it takes time to complete the process. So, how can boys reach the stage of love and successfully confirm the relationship between the two?

1: First of all, I have always felt that true love does not require months or even years of hard pursuit. If the person you love also loves you in his or her heart, then this is the beauty of love. When we start to like each other, we must be brave enough to express our feelings. Don’t think that the other party will definitely abandon you or something. We must have the courage to pursue our own love. Love cannot be exchanged for waiting. One party must take the initiative!

2: When we start a love relationship, it is just a normal chat. We need to learn to find common topics. For example, if the other person likes to talk about snacks from all over the country, then you must find out what she likes to talk about and try to find some common topics! Don't just talk about your favorite topics without caring about the other person's feelings! Don't say things that hurt others' dignity, and pay attention to humorous words! Don't be too frivolous or too arrogant!

3: While chatting, you should also learn how to express your admiration from the side, and slowly express your feelings to the other person. Maybe both parties will feel a little awkward at the beginning. For example, when eating a meal together, sometimes you will be afraid that the other person will think that your eating style is not good-looking. We don’t need to worry too much. We should be true to ourselves. Love is about sincerity in exchange for sincerity. We must learn to show our true selves. If we start to lie to the other person, the other person will have emotional grudges after noticing! If the other person can accept the real self, we may have a future emotional life and love life!

4: Finally, when we feel that we are in love, we must express our feelings directly and say to the other party, "I like you very much, can you be my girlfriend?" If the other party agrees, we can start our happy love life!

5: Holding hands. There is a song that goes "holding hands is an agreement". If a girl is willing to let you hold her hand, it means that you have confirmed your relationship. This applies to 90% of lovers. If the person you like takes the initiative to hold your hand, then the relationship is stable. It goes without saying that she/he already regards you as her/his boyfriend/girlfriend.

6: Love is beautiful, but when we gradually understand each other, we will find that the two people in love are not necessarily the perfect objects of our imagination, but we will feel that we like each other inexplicably, like to change for each other, become the way the other person likes, and slowly learn some of the other person's small habits, such as the tone of speech, etc.! There must be one person who likes to lose his temper, one who silently endures, one who is arrogant, and one who is low-key. There are no two absolutely suitable people in the world. What is needed is to change for each other so that our feelings can last longer and go longer!

The process, from establishing a relationship to starting to fall in love to being passionately in love, takes time to complete each stage.