When can a woman not touch a man?

There is a common phenomenon in life called "falling out". It is not because the man has a bad temper, but because you have touched his weak spot. Not all men have the courage to divorce. When a man who does not have the capital to file for divorce is frequently touched by his wife, he will deliberately be indifferent or avoid his wife in action. Therefore, as a wife, you must know what the weak spot of a man is and do not touch it easily. The man will be grateful to you for the rest of his life.

Fatal problem 1: Don’t call a man frequently to urge him to go home when he is socializing

Men's social activities are basically carried out around two stages: one is to pave the way for career, and the other is to pave the way for relaxation. For this reason, when men are socializing, they often receive calls from their wives urging them to stay together. Men know that it is out of concern, but they are embarrassed in front of their friends. Smart men will inform their wives in advance before socializing, and smart women will send a greeting text message to their husbands when they come home late.

Fatal flaw 2: Don’t ask questions when a man is upset

When men are upset, they don't like to complain, but prefer absolute silence. However, women are curious and concerned, and often like to ask questions when men are upset. This will not only fail to show real concern, but will make men more upset, and usually end in a quarrel between the couple. For this reason, smart women will often quietly accompany men when they are upset, and always be a qualified listener instead of a questioner.

Fatal flaw 3: Don’t expose a man’s shortcomings or embarrassing moments in front of his friends and family

Everyone has funny pasts and shortcomings. The reason why men are defenseless in front of their families is because they think there is no need to pretend in front of their families. However, in front of outsiders, men will occasionally put on a brave face. At this time, as a wife, you must not expose the true nature of the man, and don't think that your husband is hypocritical, because living in a social environment where "dogs look down on people", sometimes pretending to be strong can also buy some opportunities for yourself.

Fatal flaw 4: Don’t force a man to have sex with you when he is physically tired

Men are not as lustful as women, but they definitely desire sex more than women. However, men sometimes have the will but not the strength. When a man is so tired from life that he doesn't even want to talk, as a wife, please don't force him to have sex. Not only will it be easy for him to reject you, but it is also more likely to force the woman to say something angrily like "you are useless", which will greatly damage the man's vitality.

Fatal flaw 5: Don’t frequently criticize a man’s parents and siblings.

Men can occasionally complain about their parents or siblings, but as a wife, you should not go along with them, let alone criticize their parents and siblings. Family affection will fade as a new family is established, but at critical moments, family affection will unleash an unpredictable force. Put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if your husband frequently complained about your parents and siblings?

Fatal flaw 6: Don’t frequently search a man’s pockets or peek at his phone

Men's pockets usually contain mobile phones, pocket money, cigarettes, and lighters. Even so, women should not touch men's pockets easily, because in the eyes of men, men's pockets represent dignity and trust. Women frequently checking men's pockets is equivalent to tearing up men's dignity and destroying the trust between husband and wife. There will be some seemingly ambiguous text messages in men's mobile phones, but in fact they are not ambiguous. Women's peeping will make themselves upset and make men feel that they are making trouble. May I ask, if a man cheats, can you stop him by looking at the text messages on his mobile phone?

It is difficult to be a woman, and it is even more difficult to be a smart woman. Marriage is inherently full of ups and downs, but don’t make fun of it, don’t hurt it, and manage it with care is the hard truth.